"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TinyFzzyKiwi's test of will:revised

TinyFzzyKiwi

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*failed*

1. No Masterbation/ Porn-failed
2. At least 6 hours of sleep every day-complete
3. All homework before turning on the computer-complete
4. No more than 1 hour a day of computer games during week, 2 per day on the weekend-complete
(exception = halo 2 parties and the like at friends house)
5. Weekly workout routine (At least 3 days a week)-failed
6. Daily Workout routine:
a. Running-failed
1+ miles, or 10 minutes jump rope (sister tells me 10 mins jump rope= 30 mins jogging)
7. Study for tests in advance-complete
a. No Cramming
8. Work on homework as soon as it's given, don't procrastinate on projects-complete
9. eye contact/saying hi to at least 10 people everyday, preferably strangers/hot girls-failed, but did better today.

Man, here I was in a little wanking contest to see who could go the longest without giving in, at least I'm learning stuff about myself by doing this test of will thing. didn't have much of an actual urge or anything, was bored and wanted to try this "technique" that I found while looking at another post, stupid me. gotta stay away.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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*Failed*

1. No Masterbation/ Porn-complete
2. At least 6 hours of sleep every day-complete
3. All homework before turning on the computer-complete
4. No more than 1 hour a day of computer games during week, 2 per day on the weekend-complete
(exception = halo 2 parties and the like at friends house)
5. Weekly workout routine (At least 3 days a week)-failed
6. Daily Workout routine:
a.Running-complete
7. Study for tests in advance-complete
a. No Cramming
8. Work on homework as soon as it's given, don't procrastinate on projects-complete
9. eye contact/saying hi to at least 10 people everyday, preferably strangers/hot girls-complete

all in all, not a bad day, did eye contact every time I was talking or looking at someone. Had a soccer game tonight and now my leg hurts like hell after getting kicked in the back of the leg, oh well. If I can just start doing my pushups and situps, I"ll have a complete day.
 

TinyFzzyKiwi

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Day 16&17

day 16:
*failed*

1. No Masterbation/ Porn-complete
2. At least 6 hours of sleep every day-complete
3. All homework before turning on the computer-complete
4. No more than 1 hour a day of computer games during week, 2 per day on the weekend-complete
5. Weekly workout routine (At least 3 days a week)-failed
6. Daily Workout routine:
a. Running-failed
1+ miles, or 10 minutes jump rope (sister tells me 10 mins jump rope= 30 mins jogging)
7. Study for tests in advance-complete
a. No Cramming
8. Work on homework as soon as it's given, don't procrastinate on projects-complete
9. eye contact/saying hi to at least 10 people everyday, preferably strangers/hot girls-failed

*failed*

Day 17
1. No Masterbation/ Porn-complete
2. At least 6 hours of sleep every day-complete
3. All homework before turning on the computer-complete
4. No more than 1 hour a day of computer games during week, 2 per day on the weekend-complete
5. Weekly workout routine (At least 3 days a week)-failed
6. Daily Workout routine:
a. Running-failed
1+ miles, or 10 minutes jump rope (sister tells me 10 mins jump rope= 30 mins jogging)
7. Study for tests in advance-complete
a. No Cramming
8. Work on homework as soon as it's given, don't procrastinate on projects-complete
9. eye contact/saying hi to at least 10 people everyday, preferably strangers/hot girls-failed
 

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day 18

*failed*

1. No Masterbation/ Porn-complete
2. At least 6 hours of sleep every day-complete
3. All homework before turning on the computer-complete
4. No more than 1 hour a day of computer games during week, 2 per day on the weekend-complete
(exception = halo 2 parties and the like at friends house)
5. Weekly workout routine (At least 3 days a week)-failed
6. Daily Workout routine:complete
7. Study for tests in advance-complete
a. No Cramming
8. Work on homework as soon as it's given, don't procrastinate on projects-complete
9. eye contact/saying hi to at least 10 people everyday, preferably strangers/hot girls-failed

reason I put procrastination in red complete today was because of an unexpected schedule change at school. I was going to start studying tonight anyway, but my quiz that was gona be on wedneday got switched up with some other events this week. So, unexpected events are making it a slight cramming sorta thing.

edit: failed masturbation, but went out and ran.
 
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day 19

*complete*

1. No Masterbation/ Porn-complete
2. At least 6 hours of sleep every day-complete
3. All homework before turning on the computer-complete
4. No more than 1 hour a day of computer games during week, 2 per day on the weekend-complete
(exception = halo 2 parties and the like at friends house)
5. Weekly workout routine (At least 3 days a week)-failed
6. Daily Workout routine:
a. Running-complete
1+ miles, or 10 minutes jump rope (sister tells me 10 mins jump rope= 30 mins jogging)
7. Study for tests in advance-complete
a. No Cramming
8. Work on homework as soon as it's given, don't procrastinate on projects-complete
9. eye contact/saying hi to at least 10 people everyday, preferably strangers/hot girls-complete

One of the best days so far, and I have discovered the secret to avoid masturbation. KEEP YOURSELF BUSY! I was all over the place all day, most of the morning and afternoon, at school, came home for an hour and did homework, left for a 3 hour soccer practice, went out for dinner with some friends on the team, then came back home and did more homework. And now I'm going to bed, goodnight
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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