"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TinyFzzyKiwi's test of will:revised

TinyFzzyKiwi

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*failed*

1. No Masterbation/ Porn-failed
2. At least 6 hours of sleep every day-complete
3. All homework before turning on the computer-complete
4. No more than 1 hour a day of computer games during week, 2 per day on the weekend-complete
(exception = halo 2 parties and the like at friends house)
5. Weekly workout routine (At least 3 days a week)-failed
6. Daily Workout routine:
a. Running-failed
1+ miles, or 10 minutes jump rope (sister tells me 10 mins jump rope= 30 mins jogging)
7. Study for tests in advance-complete
a. No Cramming
8. Work on homework as soon as it's given, don't procrastinate on projects-complete
9. eye contact/saying hi to at least 10 people everyday, preferably strangers/hot girls-failed, but did better today.

Man, here I was in a little wanking contest to see who could go the longest without giving in, at least I'm learning stuff about myself by doing this test of will thing. didn't have much of an actual urge or anything, was bored and wanted to try this "technique" that I found while looking at another post, stupid me. gotta stay away.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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*Failed*

1. No Masterbation/ Porn-complete
2. At least 6 hours of sleep every day-complete
3. All homework before turning on the computer-complete
4. No more than 1 hour a day of computer games during week, 2 per day on the weekend-complete
(exception = halo 2 parties and the like at friends house)
5. Weekly workout routine (At least 3 days a week)-failed
6. Daily Workout routine:
a.Running-complete
7. Study for tests in advance-complete
a. No Cramming
8. Work on homework as soon as it's given, don't procrastinate on projects-complete
9. eye contact/saying hi to at least 10 people everyday, preferably strangers/hot girls-complete

all in all, not a bad day, did eye contact every time I was talking or looking at someone. Had a soccer game tonight and now my leg hurts like hell after getting kicked in the back of the leg, oh well. If I can just start doing my pushups and situps, I"ll have a complete day.
 

TinyFzzyKiwi

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Day 16&17

day 16:
*failed*

1. No Masterbation/ Porn-complete
2. At least 6 hours of sleep every day-complete
3. All homework before turning on the computer-complete
4. No more than 1 hour a day of computer games during week, 2 per day on the weekend-complete
5. Weekly workout routine (At least 3 days a week)-failed
6. Daily Workout routine:
a. Running-failed
1+ miles, or 10 minutes jump rope (sister tells me 10 mins jump rope= 30 mins jogging)
7. Study for tests in advance-complete
a. No Cramming
8. Work on homework as soon as it's given, don't procrastinate on projects-complete
9. eye contact/saying hi to at least 10 people everyday, preferably strangers/hot girls-failed

*failed*

Day 17
1. No Masterbation/ Porn-complete
2. At least 6 hours of sleep every day-complete
3. All homework before turning on the computer-complete
4. No more than 1 hour a day of computer games during week, 2 per day on the weekend-complete
5. Weekly workout routine (At least 3 days a week)-failed
6. Daily Workout routine:
a. Running-failed
1+ miles, or 10 minutes jump rope (sister tells me 10 mins jump rope= 30 mins jogging)
7. Study for tests in advance-complete
a. No Cramming
8. Work on homework as soon as it's given, don't procrastinate on projects-complete
9. eye contact/saying hi to at least 10 people everyday, preferably strangers/hot girls-failed
 

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day 18

*failed*

1. No Masterbation/ Porn-complete
2. At least 6 hours of sleep every day-complete
3. All homework before turning on the computer-complete
4. No more than 1 hour a day of computer games during week, 2 per day on the weekend-complete
(exception = halo 2 parties and the like at friends house)
5. Weekly workout routine (At least 3 days a week)-failed
6. Daily Workout routine:complete
7. Study for tests in advance-complete
a. No Cramming
8. Work on homework as soon as it's given, don't procrastinate on projects-complete
9. eye contact/saying hi to at least 10 people everyday, preferably strangers/hot girls-failed

reason I put procrastination in red complete today was because of an unexpected schedule change at school. I was going to start studying tonight anyway, but my quiz that was gona be on wedneday got switched up with some other events this week. So, unexpected events are making it a slight cramming sorta thing.

edit: failed masturbation, but went out and ran.
 
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day 19

*complete*

1. No Masterbation/ Porn-complete
2. At least 6 hours of sleep every day-complete
3. All homework before turning on the computer-complete
4. No more than 1 hour a day of computer games during week, 2 per day on the weekend-complete
(exception = halo 2 parties and the like at friends house)
5. Weekly workout routine (At least 3 days a week)-failed
6. Daily Workout routine:
a. Running-complete
1+ miles, or 10 minutes jump rope (sister tells me 10 mins jump rope= 30 mins jogging)
7. Study for tests in advance-complete
a. No Cramming
8. Work on homework as soon as it's given, don't procrastinate on projects-complete
9. eye contact/saying hi to at least 10 people everyday, preferably strangers/hot girls-complete

One of the best days so far, and I have discovered the secret to avoid masturbation. KEEP YOURSELF BUSY! I was all over the place all day, most of the morning and afternoon, at school, came home for an hour and did homework, left for a 3 hour soccer practice, went out for dinner with some friends on the team, then came back home and did more homework. And now I'm going to bed, goodnight
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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