"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TinyFzzyKiwi's test of will:revised

TinyFzzyKiwi

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*failed*

1. No Masterbation/ Porn-failed
2. At least 6 hours of sleep every day-complete
3. All homework before turning on the computer-complete
4. No more than 1 hour a day of computer games during week, 2 per day on the weekend-complete
(exception = halo 2 parties and the like at friends house)
5. Weekly workout routine (At least 3 days a week)-failed
6. Daily Workout routine:
a. Running-failed
1+ miles, or 10 minutes jump rope (sister tells me 10 mins jump rope= 30 mins jogging)
7. Study for tests in advance-complete
a. No Cramming
8. Work on homework as soon as it's given, don't procrastinate on projects-complete
9. eye contact/saying hi to at least 10 people everyday, preferably strangers/hot girls-failed, but did better today.

Man, here I was in a little wanking contest to see who could go the longest without giving in, at least I'm learning stuff about myself by doing this test of will thing. didn't have much of an actual urge or anything, was bored and wanted to try this "technique" that I found while looking at another post, stupid me. gotta stay away.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TinyFzzyKiwi

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*Failed*

1. No Masterbation/ Porn-complete
2. At least 6 hours of sleep every day-complete
3. All homework before turning on the computer-complete
4. No more than 1 hour a day of computer games during week, 2 per day on the weekend-complete
(exception = halo 2 parties and the like at friends house)
5. Weekly workout routine (At least 3 days a week)-failed
6. Daily Workout routine:
a.Running-complete
7. Study for tests in advance-complete
a. No Cramming
8. Work on homework as soon as it's given, don't procrastinate on projects-complete
9. eye contact/saying hi to at least 10 people everyday, preferably strangers/hot girls-complete

all in all, not a bad day, did eye contact every time I was talking or looking at someone. Had a soccer game tonight and now my leg hurts like hell after getting kicked in the back of the leg, oh well. If I can just start doing my pushups and situps, I"ll have a complete day.
 

TinyFzzyKiwi

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Day 16&17

day 16:
*failed*

1. No Masterbation/ Porn-complete
2. At least 6 hours of sleep every day-complete
3. All homework before turning on the computer-complete
4. No more than 1 hour a day of computer games during week, 2 per day on the weekend-complete
5. Weekly workout routine (At least 3 days a week)-failed
6. Daily Workout routine:
a. Running-failed
1+ miles, or 10 minutes jump rope (sister tells me 10 mins jump rope= 30 mins jogging)
7. Study for tests in advance-complete
a. No Cramming
8. Work on homework as soon as it's given, don't procrastinate on projects-complete
9. eye contact/saying hi to at least 10 people everyday, preferably strangers/hot girls-failed

*failed*

Day 17
1. No Masterbation/ Porn-complete
2. At least 6 hours of sleep every day-complete
3. All homework before turning on the computer-complete
4. No more than 1 hour a day of computer games during week, 2 per day on the weekend-complete
5. Weekly workout routine (At least 3 days a week)-failed
6. Daily Workout routine:
a. Running-failed
1+ miles, or 10 minutes jump rope (sister tells me 10 mins jump rope= 30 mins jogging)
7. Study for tests in advance-complete
a. No Cramming
8. Work on homework as soon as it's given, don't procrastinate on projects-complete
9. eye contact/saying hi to at least 10 people everyday, preferably strangers/hot girls-failed
 

TinyFzzyKiwi

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day 18

*failed*

1. No Masterbation/ Porn-complete
2. At least 6 hours of sleep every day-complete
3. All homework before turning on the computer-complete
4. No more than 1 hour a day of computer games during week, 2 per day on the weekend-complete
(exception = halo 2 parties and the like at friends house)
5. Weekly workout routine (At least 3 days a week)-failed
6. Daily Workout routine:complete
7. Study for tests in advance-complete
a. No Cramming
8. Work on homework as soon as it's given, don't procrastinate on projects-complete
9. eye contact/saying hi to at least 10 people everyday, preferably strangers/hot girls-failed

reason I put procrastination in red complete today was because of an unexpected schedule change at school. I was going to start studying tonight anyway, but my quiz that was gona be on wedneday got switched up with some other events this week. So, unexpected events are making it a slight cramming sorta thing.

edit: failed masturbation, but went out and ran.
 
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day 19

*complete*

1. No Masterbation/ Porn-complete
2. At least 6 hours of sleep every day-complete
3. All homework before turning on the computer-complete
4. No more than 1 hour a day of computer games during week, 2 per day on the weekend-complete
(exception = halo 2 parties and the like at friends house)
5. Weekly workout routine (At least 3 days a week)-failed
6. Daily Workout routine:
a. Running-complete
1+ miles, or 10 minutes jump rope (sister tells me 10 mins jump rope= 30 mins jogging)
7. Study for tests in advance-complete
a. No Cramming
8. Work on homework as soon as it's given, don't procrastinate on projects-complete
9. eye contact/saying hi to at least 10 people everyday, preferably strangers/hot girls-complete

One of the best days so far, and I have discovered the secret to avoid masturbation. KEEP YOURSELF BUSY! I was all over the place all day, most of the morning and afternoon, at school, came home for an hour and did homework, left for a 3 hour soccer practice, went out for dinner with some friends on the team, then came back home and did more homework. And now I'm going to bed, goodnight
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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