“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Just curious. I have left this hanging for about 1.5 days. C5CB40BF-66C2-4A00-9931-A6AD8A51B5EF.jpeg
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Have that call, build some rapport and get her out on a date. Waiting a week isn't good, time kills deals you know this.
 

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Thanks. I would love feedback on the first post. That is a different girl lol.
 

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Thanks. Last chat a moment ago, figuring that reply was coming:

I got pulled away Friday. I don’t spend a lot of time on here but would like to keep up. Would it work to switch to a call later on? hope you had a good Turkey day and rest of your weekend.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Thanks. Last chat a moment ago, figuring that reply was coming:

I got pulled away Friday. I don’t spend a lot of time on here but would like to keep up. Would it work to switch to a call later on? hope you had a good Turkey day and rest of your weekend.
Good for making the move but that sounds really awkward...is English not your first language?
 

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The way you’re phrasing the call is a bit weird and slightly obsessive. Why don’t you have WhatsApp? I literally don’t know a single human being in the western world that doesn’t use it. Chat on WhatsApp and then voice note them then call them after some back and forth. Make it more natural and seemless, you’re hyping it up like a big event, the call, nervous energy all round.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Wow honestly had I not asked I would have thought the game was solid. I miss the forest for the trees sometimes; I overthink / have a lot of value on technique.., which as a salesman I should know is more about the flow and not as much about the words

still think she was DTF. Good stuff guys thanks
 
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