"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I know these posts are the worst, but I thought this one was interesting. While on ban, I did an experiment pretending to be a male model named Matthew Noszka, whose name I got because someone else mentioned him on here.

https://www.google.com/search?sourc.......0...1.1.64.psy-ab..0.0.0....0.4Qg3N-xZd4A

I used 3 of his pictures on Tinder and liked 100 people/day for 4 days. Tinder warned me after 4 days for using fake pictures.

The results were that I got an average of 5 matches per day. And most of those weren't even people I originally liked, it was people that liked me when I didn't originally see them. So he had an average match ratio of under 5%.

What's more interesting is what happened in the conversations that followed. I pretty much just asked them all if they wanted to hook up. 90% of them unmatched me and told me to fvck myself as soon as I said that. The only girl that was willing to just come over and hook up was a PARAPLEGIC.

Btw, his matches were less attractive than my BackPage prostitutes.

I guess the point is that personality matters, and should definitely be added to this whole LMS thing. And I think social skills should be there as well.

My personal match ratio on Tinder is an average of less than 1 out of 100.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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That's good input.

Did you create a brand new account to do this or use an existing one?

For whatever reason Tinder doesn't seem to be as effective as it once was, and that seems to be the general consensus. I average about one new match a week that is a HB7/HB8, I don't count the "fatties and ugs" that I accidentally swiped right on. Typically they are within 3yrs(+/-) of my age.
 

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I know these posts are the worst, but I thought this one was interesting. While on ban, I did an experiment pretending to be a male model named Matthew Noszka, whose name I got because someone else mentioned him on here.

https://www.google.com/search?sourc.......0...1.1.64.psy-ab..0.0.0....0.4Qg3N-xZd4A

I used 3 of his pictures on Tinder and liked 100 people/day for 4 days. Tinder warned me after 4 days for using fake pictures.

The results were that I got an average of 5 matches per day. And most of those weren't even people I originally liked, it was people that liked me when I didn't originally see them. So he had an average match ratio of under 5%.
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5%? I do much better than that on Bumble.
 

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remember that is around your city, also take note, tinder, its for hook up, but you really can't say that out loud you need to fake it, pretty much tinder is for lying bastards who no one want to get,
 

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5%? I do much better than that on Bumble.
I have always done better on Bumble than Tinder. I have the same approach, same pics, same profile. All I can think is the Bumble algorithm is better suited to my swiping habits.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I have always done better on Bumble than Tinder. I have the same approach, same pics, same profile. All I can think is the Bumble algorithm is better suited to my swiping habits.
At this point, Bumble keeps telling me there's an error when I try to sign in through Facebook. I don't know why because my Facebook account is active and working.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ya, why? Do you want to come down to NY, get drunk, and bang free hot girls with Guru?
So being in your enterouge provides same benefits as being in the group of professional ballers? Status by association, the ladies drop to their knees to worship your friends. Must be nice.
 
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Ya, why? Do you want to come down to NY, get drunk, and bang free hot girls with Guru?
I was actually thinking of quitting. I've been drinking an awful lot lately. I am forced to quit for the next 14 days while I'm on antibiotics.

Honestly, I don't think they'd like me. I'm too quiet.
 

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Honestly, I don't think they'd like me. I'm too quiet.
Not like a stud like you? I find that hard to believe. Once you let them know you are rocking a bionic c0ck and even got it traded in for a larger model, it's game over.
 
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Not like a stud like you? I find that hard to believe. Once you let them know you are rocking a bionic c0ck and even got it traded in for a larger model, it's game over.
Omg that's so true.

I should tell people all the time.

So what's my problem then? I'm shy? What kind of weak sh1t is that. That's the worst trait a man can have.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Omg that's so true.

I should tell people all the time.

So what's my problem then? I'm shy? What kind of weak sh1t is that. That's the worst trait a man can have.
You gotta walk around like you own the world. "Hey hon, my bionic dik is so big ... that my dik has a dik." Own who you are.
 

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Frog- you ever watch Bad Grandpa? He had a big dihk and he owned the dance floor with that thing.
 
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Frog- you ever watch Bad Grandpa? He had a big dihk and he owned the dance floor with that thing.
Never seen it.

It's still not long, though.

How badly I wish I could extend it 2", but there's no reliable way. It's under 6".

I still have lots of confidence in my sexual abilities and I think any girl I did once would want to do it again.
 

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I have used Tinder extensively last year and banged about 15 women from there.

But when I had to go to Madrid for 5 days 6 months ago and took an unlimited subscription and swiped like 10.000 times in a few days and only 10 matches or so. A lot less than I wd get back home. The funny thing I ended up banging a girl who was staying in the same hotel who was not on Tinder.
My pickup line was “Hey my name is qd I’m bored wanna get drunk?”
 
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I have used Tinder extensively last year and banged about 15 women from there.

But when I had to go to Madrid for 5 days 6 months ago and took an unlimited subscription and swiped like 10.000 times in a few days and only 10 matches or so. A lot less than I wd get back home. The funny thing I ended up banging a girl who was staying in the same hotel who was not on Tinder.
My pickup line was “Hey my name is qd I’m bored wanna get drunk?”
So that's a 0.1% match rate.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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