tennisbuck12
Don Juan
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- Aug 6, 2015
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How long do you guys wait until ask these women out after intial contact? I've tried both ways right away (sometimes same night) and I've slow played it.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Tinder/Bumble Online Dating
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
AllDay85
Senior Don Juan
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Master Don Juan
When I was doing OLD, I generally asked for a meet up pretty fast, sometimes without even asking for the number. It helped weed out the chick's who were just looking for orbiters or an ego boost. I think the know within a few messages whether they are going to boink you or not.
Occasionally one would say "that's a little fast, I would like to get to know you better first" and I would say something like "can you really get to know someone online? I think we can learn more about each other in 30min over coffee than a thousand text messages".
Occasionally one would say "that's a little fast, I would like to get to know you better first" and I would say something like "can you really get to know someone online? I think we can learn more about each other in 30min over coffee than a thousand text messages".