tennisbuck12
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How long do you guys wait until ask these women out after intial contact? I've tried both ways right away (sometimes same night) and I've slow played it.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Tinder/Bumble Online Dating
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
AllDay85
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When I was doing OLD, I generally asked for a meet up pretty fast, sometimes without even asking for the number. It helped weed out the chick's who were just looking for orbiters or an ego boost. I think the know within a few messages whether they are going to boink you or not.
Occasionally one would say "that's a little fast, I would like to get to know you better first" and I would say something like "can you really get to know someone online? I think we can learn more about each other in 30min over coffee than a thousand text messages".
Occasionally one would say "that's a little fast, I would like to get to know you better first" and I would say something like "can you really get to know someone online? I think we can learn more about each other in 30min over coffee than a thousand text messages".