tennisbuck12
Don Juan
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How long do you guys wait until ask these women out after intial contact? I've tried both ways right away (sometimes same night) and I've slow played it.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Tinder/Bumble Online Dating
- Thread starter tennisbuck12
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
AllDay85
Senior Don Juan
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Master Don Juan
When I was doing OLD, I generally asked for a meet up pretty fast, sometimes without even asking for the number. It helped weed out the chick's who were just looking for orbiters or an ego boost. I think the know within a few messages whether they are going to boink you or not.
Occasionally one would say "that's a little fast, I would like to get to know you better first" and I would say something like "can you really get to know someone online? I think we can learn more about each other in 30min over coffee than a thousand text messages".
Occasionally one would say "that's a little fast, I would like to get to know you better first" and I would say something like "can you really get to know someone online? I think we can learn more about each other in 30min over coffee than a thousand text messages".