tennisbuck12
Don Juan
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- Aug 6, 2015
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How long do you guys wait until ask these women out after intial contact? I've tried both ways right away (sometimes same night) and I've slow played it.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Tinder/Bumble Online Dating
- Thread starter tennisbuck12
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
AllDay85
Senior Don Juan
2 days
MOTU
Master Don Juan
When I was doing OLD, I generally asked for a meet up pretty fast, sometimes without even asking for the number. It helped weed out the chick's who were just looking for orbiters or an ego boost. I think the know within a few messages whether they are going to boink you or not.
Occasionally one would say "that's a little fast, I would like to get to know you better first" and I would say something like "can you really get to know someone online? I think we can learn more about each other in 30min over coffee than a thousand text messages".
Occasionally one would say "that's a little fast, I would like to get to know you better first" and I would say something like "can you really get to know someone online? I think we can learn more about each other in 30min over coffee than a thousand text messages".