"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Are those new matches real and active?
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From what I can tell yes.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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I had one serious relationship out of it, also the one with an STI she got off a Tinder guy that ended it, lol. So it started AND ended my relationship before it began.
If you're exceptionally handsome in photos, it's good for easy matches. I don't get easy matches on there, but even when I do I think the average value of the girls is poor and a lot of them have issues (as with OLD in general). Every now and then, I get a hot and smart girl who actually read my bio and has stuff in common with me - so there are a modicum of high value girls on there if you're lucky.
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RichardTheFrog
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How "serious" can the relationship of a little boy be?
Did you tell her about studying for your next chemistry quiz?
RichardTheFrog
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Ever heard of a condom?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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HPV and HSV are skin diseases which transfer from skin to skin contact. Condoms would only protect the penis head and shaft, nothing else. So, if it's on her legs, labia or other parts of her body and your unprotected skin (I.E. ballsack) touches that area, it will be transmitted. I've done loads of research on this.
RichardTheFrog
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I've been with 200 hookers and have nothing.
R.U.G.
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When was the last time you got a full panel STI/STD test? A man cannot test for HPV btw.
RichardTheFrog
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I'd get tested again if I was you. You must specifically request a HSV 1 & 2 test. It's not in the normal STI/STD test array. Your call. Or, you could be lucky. Though, luck does eventually run out.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
RichardTheFrog
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It is in the normal test, thanks.
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No it isn't, but whatever you say.
RichardTheFrog
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Thanks for this advice I tried the boost with amazing success ..
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Not doing it right kuz.
Her fertility and aesthetics are failing her. Being a attention ***** and cratering her smv is funny.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.