You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
From what I can tell yes.Im out from tinder from long time, so you paid to have your profile boosted and suddenly 10 new matches appeared?
Are those new matches real and active?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I had one serious relationship out of it, also the one with an STI she got off a Tinder guy that ended it, lol. So it started AND ended my relationship before it began.Is tinder really that good? I heard it was full of low level psyco women with mad STIs and STDs.
How "serious" can the relationship of a little boy be?I had one serious relationship out of it, also the one with an STI she got off a Tinder guy that ended it, lol. So it started AND ended my relationship before it began.
If you're exceptionally handsome in photos, it's good for easy matches. I don't get easy matches on there, but even when I do I think the average value of the girls is poor and a lot of them have issues (as with OLD in general). Every now and then, I get a hot and smart girl who actually read my bio and has stuff in common with me - so there are a modicum of high value girls on there if you're lucky.
Ever heard of a condom?Too concerned with catching something, so I stay off there and I really limit my sexual encounters nowadays. Not worth it with all these resistant bugs. Others can take the risk for 10 - 30 minutes of pleasure. Since we live now for 80+ years, the numbers do not compute for me. That means, I have at least another 40+ years.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
HPV and HSV are skin diseases which transfer from skin to skin contact. Condoms would only protect the penis head and shaft, nothing else. So, if it's on her legs, labia or other parts of her body and your unprotected skin (I.E. ballsack) touches that area, it will be transmitted. I've done loads of research on this.Ever heard of a condom?
I've been with 200 hookers and have nothing.HPV and HSV are skin diseases which transfer from skin to skin contact. Condoms would only protect the penis head and shaft, nothing else. So, if it's on her legs, labia or other parts of her body and your unprotected skin (I.E. ballsack) touches that area, it will be transmitted. I've done loads of research on this.
When was the last time you got a full panel STI/STD test? A man cannot test for HPV btw.I've been with 200 hookers and have nothing.
Few months ago.When was the last time you got a full panel STI/STD test? A man cannot test for HPV btw.
I'd get tested again if I was you. You must specifically request a HSV 1 & 2 test. It's not in the normal STI/STD test array. Your call. Or, you could be lucky. Though, luck does eventually run out.Few months ago.
But I've been doing it for years.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It is in the normal test, thanks.I'd get tested again if I was you. You must specifically request a HSV 1 & 2 test. It's not in the normal STI/STD test array. Your call. Or, you could be lucky. Though, luck does eventually run out.
No it isn't, but whatever you say.It is in the normal test, thanks.
Thanks for this advice I tried the boost with amazing success ..From what I can tell yes.
Not doing it right kuz.Frankly I find most of the matches I get don't even bother replying. Kinda p*sses me off, because even when I get Super Liked it's normally just a waste of time.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.