"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Pay for boosts. Paid for boost 10 matches in a half hr..

So many guys are on tinder girls aren't even seeing your profile
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Who Dares Win

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Im out from tinder from long time, so you paid to have your profile boosted and suddenly 10 new matches appeared?

Are those new matches real and active?
 

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Delete profile and remake, problem solved.

Having said that, I'm yet to have done this, I have enough matches and numbers saved to last me until 2019.
 

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Frankly I find most of the matches I get don't even bother replying. Kinda p*sses me off, because even when I get Super Liked it's normally just a waste of time.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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R.U.G.

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Is tinder really that good? I heard it was full of low level psyco women with mad STIs and STDs.
 

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Is tinder really that good? I heard it was full of low level psyco women with mad STIs and STDs.
I had one serious relationship out of it, also the one with an STI she got off a Tinder guy that ended it, lol. So it started AND ended my relationship before it began.

If you're exceptionally handsome in photos, it's good for easy matches. I don't get easy matches on there, but even when I do I think the average value of the girls is poor and a lot of them have issues (as with OLD in general). Every now and then, I get a hot and smart girl who actually read my bio and has stuff in common with me - so there are a modicum of high value girls on there if you're lucky.
 

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Too concerned with catching something, so I stay off there and I really limit my sexual encounters nowadays. Not worth it with all these resistant bugs. Others can take the risk for 10 - 30 minutes of pleasure. Since we live now for 80+ years, the numbers do not compute for me. That means, I have at least another 40+ years.
 
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I had one serious relationship out of it, also the one with an STI she got off a Tinder guy that ended it, lol. So it started AND ended my relationship before it began.

If you're exceptionally handsome in photos, it's good for easy matches. I don't get easy matches on there, but even when I do I think the average value of the girls is poor and a lot of them have issues (as with OLD in general). Every now and then, I get a hot and smart girl who actually read my bio and has stuff in common with me - so there are a modicum of high value girls on there if you're lucky.
How "serious" can the relationship of a little boy be?

Did you tell her about studying for your next chemistry quiz?
 
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Too concerned with catching something, so I stay off there and I really limit my sexual encounters nowadays. Not worth it with all these resistant bugs. Others can take the risk for 10 - 30 minutes of pleasure. Since we live now for 80+ years, the numbers do not compute for me. That means, I have at least another 40+ years.
Ever heard of a condom?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ever heard of a condom?
HPV and HSV are skin diseases which transfer from skin to skin contact. Condoms would only protect the penis head and shaft, nothing else. So, if it's on her legs, labia or other parts of her body and your unprotected skin (I.E. ballsack) touches that area, it will be transmitted. I've done loads of research on this.
 
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HPV and HSV are skin diseases which transfer from skin to skin contact. Condoms would only protect the penis head and shaft, nothing else. So, if it's on her legs, labia or other parts of her body and your unprotected skin (I.E. ballsack) touches that area, it will be transmitted. I've done loads of research on this.
I've been with 200 hookers and have nothing.
 

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Few months ago.

But I've been doing it for years.
I'd get tested again if I was you. You must specifically request a HSV 1 & 2 test. It's not in the normal STI/STD test array. Your call. Or, you could be lucky. Though, luck does eventually run out.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Frankly I find most of the matches I get don't even bother replying. Kinda p*sses me off, because even when I get Super Liked it's normally just a waste of time.
Not doing it right kuz.

Her fertility and aesthetics are failing her. Being a attention ***** and cratering her smv is funny.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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