"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tinder + abs + shirtless pic = results

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You forgot to add “and some of you need to start finding 2 hot chicks who you are good friends with, you can take pictures with, and post on a dating site.”
Just take a pic with two strippers in plain clothes. Tip em $10 each. They are good at fake smiles and presence because they are professional attention wh0res.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I've been wasting time on bumble.

Activated Tinder for the first time, 3 pics.

1. Shirtless (main)
2. With a bro
3. With 2 hot chicks (friends)

Profile just says "looking for a laugh"

Boom, matches up the ass, ran out of swipes, 25+ likes i cant get till tomorrow. And i got laid tonight.

So that's the formula fellas, its not hard.

Think some of y'all need to stop making posts about hypergamy and transgender rights and start hitting the damn gym.
Shirtless pic but, action pic or poop side is ideal.
 

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I've been wasting time on bumble.

Activated Tinder for the first time, 3 pics.

1. Shirtless (main)
2. With a bro
3. With 2 hot chicks (friends)

Profile just says "looking for a laugh"

Boom, matches up the ass, ran out of swipes, 25+ likes i cant get till tomorrow. And i got laid tonight.

So that's the formula fellas, its not hard.

Think some of y'all need to stop making posts about hypergamy and transgender rights and start hitting the damn gym.
I just redownloaded tinder the other day and reformed my profile to pretty much this exact formula.

Since I’ve never tried being this direct before, I am actually finding myself dumbfounded right now lol...

I messaged a 7.5 today while I was at work and said “I’ll see ya tonight for our smash sesh”

And like 2 minutes later she said “okay daddy”.

Like wtf? Lolol. I’m so surprised (even though I shouldn’t be) that I don’t even know how to follow this up...:lol:

Not new to tinder but definitely new to seeing anything remotely positive from it.

Any ideas?
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm not convinced it's easy. We all pay a price. You claim to be exceptionally fit, so that is the price that you pay. You forgo your Love of food and drink and you exercise. Most people won't do it.
I eat and drink pretty much what I want, i do IF till 2pm then i have 2800 calories to play with for the rest of the day.

And excercise is not a chore to me
 

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I eat and drink pretty much what I want, i do IF till 2pm then i have 2800 calories to play with for the rest of the day.

And excercise is not a chore to me
What's a typical day's diet for you? How much do you work out?
 

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I eat and drink pretty much what I want, i do IF till 2pm then i have 2800 calories to play with for the rest of the day.

And excercise is not a chore to me
If Johnny X eat as many cals as you hell get fat and so will I and im bigger. ( 6'3" 230 7% bf ), it's somewhere about metabolism and also the persons bodies efficiency of digesting foods. I don't know but I have plenty of FUEL to power thru and PLENTY of power in my workouts with around 22-2400 cals for the day.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If Johnny X eat as many cals as you hell get fat and so will I and im bigger. ( 6'3" 230 7% bf ), it's somewhere about metabolism and also the persons bodies efficiency of digesting foods. I don't know but I have plenty of FUEL to power thru and PLENTY of power in my workouts with around 22-2400 cals for the day.
2800 is my maintenance, I'm 6'2" 221lbs and similar bodyfat to you, i do walk a lot though as live inner city
 

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2800 is my maintenance, I'm 6'2" 221lbs and similar bodyfat to you, i do walk a lot though as live inner city
Dude you're 94.5 percentile height and buff. Plus you must have insane genetics if you can eat carelessly to maintain that.

Is that you in your avatar?

Are you really surprised that getting laid is easy if you're top 5% physically?

Ripped abs do work for short guys too - I'm not saying they don't. I know a guy who was 5'6" and steroided to hell and he did well on Tinder. Until he got busted for steroids. (Not even joking.)

Just saying you're clearly dating on tutorial mode right now.
 
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