"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Infern0

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I've been wasting time on bumble.

Activated Tinder for the first time, 3 pics.

1. Shirtless (main)
2. With a bro
3. With 2 hot chicks (friends)

Profile just says "looking for a laugh"

Boom, matches up the ass, ran out of swipes, 25+ likes i cant get till tomorrow. And i got laid tonight.

So that's the formula fellas, its not hard.

Think some of y'all need to stop making posts about hypergamy and transgender rights and start hitting the damn gym.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I've been wasting time on bumble.

Activated Tinder for the first time, 3 pics.

1. Shirtless (main)
2. With a bro
3. With 2 hot chicks (friends)

Profile just says "looking for a laugh"

Boom, matches up the ass, ran out of swipes, 25+ likes i cant get till tomorrow. And i got laid tonight.

So that's the formula fellas, its not hard.

Think some of y'all need to stop making posts about hypergamy and transgender rights and start hitting the damn gym.
What's your getting laid convo? I'm getting matches but they wanting to get a first date in. Not just straight sex.
 

Infern0

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What's your getting laid convo? I'm getting matches but they wanting to get a first date in. Not just straight sex.
You gear your profile around it, i.e shirtless pic, "looking for a good time" or whatever as your profile, then usually they hit you with some "what you upto" nonsense and ya go "watching netflix, up for chill?"

Not every girls gonna go for this though especially not on a weeknight if so just go on the date and seal it there.
 

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You gear your profile around it, i.e shirtless pic, "looking for a good time" or whatever as your profile, then usually they hit you with some "what you upto" nonsense and ya go "watching netflix, up for chill?"

Not every girls gonna go for this though especially not on a weeknight if so just go on the date and seal it there.
I'm getting about 10% matches as is. I been using the AMS string em along onlong dating strategy. Im going to build a rotation using this and add build to social circle . Im pretty good friend or associate to every chick I've fvcked except one night stands. I believe in putting good Dee in em.
 

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What's your stated age on Tinder and what age are the women who are responding to you?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Give it a few days and see how many likes you get.

Your profile is no doubt playing it's part, but Tinder always puts new profiles to the front of the deck. You would've been one of the first people to show up for a lot of women.

Looks wise I'm nothing special, but even I can get 25+ likes waiting for me on a fresh account. That massively drops off once the initial boost wears off. That's just how Tinder works these days.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I've been wasting time on bumble.

Activated Tinder for the first time, 3 pics.

1. Shirtless (main)
2. With a bro
3. With 2 hot chicks (friends)

Profile just says "looking for a laugh"

Boom, matches up the ass, ran out of swipes, 25+ likes i cant get till tomorrow. And i got laid tonight.

So that's the formula fellas, its not hard.

Think some of y'all need to stop making posts about hypergamy and transgender rights and start hitting the damn gym.
Start fvcking and stop complaining.
 

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Give it a few days and see how many likes you get.

Your profile is no doubt playing it's part, but Tinder always puts new profiles to the front of the deck. You would've been one of the first people to show up for a lot of women.

Looks wise I'm nothing special, but even I can get 25+ likes waiting for me on a fresh account. That massively drops off once the initial boost wears off. That's just how Tinder works these days.
Can u change profile to get back to front of deck?
 

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ALL. How do you frame your tinder convo towards sex?

They currently trying to get first dates.
 

Who Dares Win

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Well I believe what you say, a guy in shape gets result.

Anyway you didnt mention the quality of those girls, cause if they are land whale we're again "talking about hypergamy", can you upload any pics of your matches?

Do they give fast answer and are open after being matched or are they silent?
 

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Can u change profile to get back to front of deck?
If you pay for Tinder, yes
If you don't pay for Tinder, no.

Only way to get yourself back to the front of the deck with regular Tinder Is to delete your account and start over again.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you pay for Tinder, yes
If you don't pay for Tinder, no.

Only way to get yourself back to the front of the deck with regular Tinder Is to delete your account and start over again.
I paid for one month 2 days ago . So if I make a small profile change daily it'll keep me in front?
 

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I paid for one month 2 days ago . So if I make a small profile change daily it'll keep me in front?
No, you get a Boost feature with the paid version. That puts you at the front of the deck for a period of time.
 

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ALL. How do you frame your tinder convo towards sex?

They currently trying to get first dates.
I've created some fake profiles to see what is like. Lets just say I wouldn't have to put that much effort.
 

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Activated Tinder for the first time, 3 pics.

1. Shirtless (main)
2. With a bro
3. With 2 hot chicks (friends)

Profile just says "looking for a laugh"

Think some of y'all need to stop making posts about hypergamy and transgender rights and start hitting the damn gym.
You forgot to add “and some of you need to start finding 2 hot chicks who you are good friends with, you can take pictures with, and post on a dating site.”
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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