"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tinder + abs + shirtless pic = results

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You forgot to add “and some of you need to start finding 2 hot chicks who you are good friends with, you can take pictures with, and post on a dating site.”
Just take a pic with two strippers in plain clothes. Tip em $10 each. They are good at fake smiles and presence because they are professional attention wh0res.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DEEZEDBRAH

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I've been wasting time on bumble.

Activated Tinder for the first time, 3 pics.

1. Shirtless (main)
2. With a bro
3. With 2 hot chicks (friends)

Profile just says "looking for a laugh"

Boom, matches up the ass, ran out of swipes, 25+ likes i cant get till tomorrow. And i got laid tonight.

So that's the formula fellas, its not hard.

Think some of y'all need to stop making posts about hypergamy and transgender rights and start hitting the damn gym.
Shirtless pic but, action pic or poop side is ideal.
 

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I've been wasting time on bumble.

Activated Tinder for the first time, 3 pics.

1. Shirtless (main)
2. With a bro
3. With 2 hot chicks (friends)

Profile just says "looking for a laugh"

Boom, matches up the ass, ran out of swipes, 25+ likes i cant get till tomorrow. And i got laid tonight.

So that's the formula fellas, its not hard.

Think some of y'all need to stop making posts about hypergamy and transgender rights and start hitting the damn gym.
I just redownloaded tinder the other day and reformed my profile to pretty much this exact formula.

Since I’ve never tried being this direct before, I am actually finding myself dumbfounded right now lol...

I messaged a 7.5 today while I was at work and said “I’ll see ya tonight for our smash sesh”

And like 2 minutes later she said “okay daddy”.

Like wtf? Lolol. I’m so surprised (even though I shouldn’t be) that I don’t even know how to follow this up...:lol:

Not new to tinder but definitely new to seeing anything remotely positive from it.

Any ideas?
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm not convinced it's easy. We all pay a price. You claim to be exceptionally fit, so that is the price that you pay. You forgo your Love of food and drink and you exercise. Most people won't do it.
I eat and drink pretty much what I want, i do IF till 2pm then i have 2800 calories to play with for the rest of the day.

And excercise is not a chore to me
 

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I eat and drink pretty much what I want, i do IF till 2pm then i have 2800 calories to play with for the rest of the day.

And excercise is not a chore to me
What's a typical day's diet for you? How much do you work out?
 

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I eat and drink pretty much what I want, i do IF till 2pm then i have 2800 calories to play with for the rest of the day.

And excercise is not a chore to me
If Johnny X eat as many cals as you hell get fat and so will I and im bigger. ( 6'3" 230 7% bf ), it's somewhere about metabolism and also the persons bodies efficiency of digesting foods. I don't know but I have plenty of FUEL to power thru and PLENTY of power in my workouts with around 22-2400 cals for the day.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If Johnny X eat as many cals as you hell get fat and so will I and im bigger. ( 6'3" 230 7% bf ), it's somewhere about metabolism and also the persons bodies efficiency of digesting foods. I don't know but I have plenty of FUEL to power thru and PLENTY of power in my workouts with around 22-2400 cals for the day.
2800 is my maintenance, I'm 6'2" 221lbs and similar bodyfat to you, i do walk a lot though as live inner city
 

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2800 is my maintenance, I'm 6'2" 221lbs and similar bodyfat to you, i do walk a lot though as live inner city
Dude you're 94.5 percentile height and buff. Plus you must have insane genetics if you can eat carelessly to maintain that.

Is that you in your avatar?

Are you really surprised that getting laid is easy if you're top 5% physically?

Ripped abs do work for short guys too - I'm not saying they don't. I know a guy who was 5'6" and steroided to hell and he did well on Tinder. Until he got busted for steroids. (Not even joking.)

Just saying you're clearly dating on tutorial mode right now.
 
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