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Tinder ‘study’—this **** literally proves the 80/20 rule

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I lied, it’s not 80/20. It’s more like 15/20. Check it out:

Key highlights for you guys:

- Unlike I thought, 240 of the 300 girls actually had sex through tinder! Only less than 50 of the 300 men, which is remarkable.

- Something negative: Around 50 women admitted to have cheated through Tinder. Very few guys have. In almost all cases, the partner doesn't have a clue.


Check out this one comment by the woman who did this thing herself:

It's also something I noticed that "porn style sex" occurs on these casual encounters and women seem to enjoy that but many don't feel comfortable doing that with a long term partner. There's the saying, it's pretty misogynistic but also holds some truth, "girls want to be treated like a princess and ****ed like a slut". The thing is that is hard to form these two contradicting bonds with one partner. That's why we often see women giving it up for some guys who treat them like "sluts" and have crazy sex in no time, but take a while to put out with a serious partner. it's like the saying "alpha ****s, beta bucks". I know that this isn't the best view I'm giving on my own gender, but as a future sexologist/scientist I need to be objective, and it's a harsh truth.


For any of you lurkers here, this one is for you. This is reality.
 

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My experiance has been girls I’ve met in Tinder are very horny. And kinky. Like hair pulling, biting, dirty talk. Most were into hard missionary. And wanting to peg me. But I skipped on that.
 
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The Greek said : a wife for baby, a slave for dirty-violent sex, a mistress for pleasure sex.
(Something like that)

Back in the days, men had "side" for all kind of sex and yeah long-term partner weren't always considered for the "dirty stuff" that made us "taken male to go on a side Plate" .

Women do the same now
 
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At this stage is it safe to say any guy who takes a woman serious on tinder is a sucker? meaning multiple dates without having sex?
At this stage whoever invest on a woman which is not brand new (his high school sweetheart) is a sucker. we are now living in a sharing market where we share city cars and women.

 

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Lots of matures on tinder now. It's a goldmine for me. Endless pus for the 40's and 50's women. It's great. Never tried with the women my age, too hard. Can't get them. I go for at least mid 40's or higher. Their self esteem is shot, and they are just happy to have any dude want to stick their d@ck in them.
 

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Lots of matures on tinder now. It's a goldmine for me. Endless pus for the 40's and 50's women. It's great. Never tried with the women my age, too hard. Can't get them. I go for at least mid 40's or higher. Their self esteem is shot, and they are just happy to have any dude want to stick their d@ck in them.
Full of it. Anything over 35 on tinder is land whales and *****s. Even over 30 they look rough. Tinder is terrible for post wall.
 

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Full of it. Anything over 35 on tinder is land whales and *****s. Even over 30 they look rough. Tinder is terrible for post wall.
True. But the women are a lot worse on other apps like Badoo, Hily, Hot or Not. Those apps have awful profiles and pictures. Probably a lot of fakes though. The best looking women seem to be on OkCupid, Zook, Match, bumble,Coffee Meets Bagel and eHarmony in my area.
 

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True. But the women are a lot worse on other apps like Badoo, Hily, Hot or Not. Those apps have awful profiles and pictures. Probably a lot of fakes though. The best looking women seem to be on OkCupid, Zook, Match, bumble,Coffee Meets Bagel and eHarmony in my area.
Okcupid at least in Florida has the nastiest women along with pof. Coffee meets bagel has hardly anyone on there not worth the time using it.

Actually okc worse than pof around here but same mold of people.

Down here match and Facebook dsting seem to have the best looking women. Eharmony too but have to be closer to Tampa to make it worth it. Otherwise match is the best app but a lot of competition.

Any site that is free or super low cost will have bottom of the barrel women on it. Pay to play hence why they make a killing charging guys money for services.

Okc is better during the summer when kids are out of college I noticed better looking girls on there.
 

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I lied, it’s not 80/20. It’s more like 15/20. Check it out:

Key highlights for you guys:

- Unlike I thought, 240 of the 300 girls actually had sex through tinder! Only less than 50 of the 300 men, which is remarkable.

- Something negative: Around 50 women admitted to have cheated through Tinder. Very few guys have. In almost all cases, the partner doesn't have a clue.


Check out this one comment by the woman who did this thing herself:

It's also something I noticed that "porn style sex" occurs on these casual encounters and women seem to enjoy that but many don't feel comfortable doing that with a long term partner. There's the saying, it's pretty misogynistic but also holds some truth, "girls want to be treated like a princess and ****ed like a slut". The thing is that is hard to form these two contradicting bonds with one partner. That's why we often see women giving it up for some guys who treat them like "sluts" and have crazy sex in no time, but take a while to put out with a serious partner. it's like the saying "alpha ****s, beta bucks". I know that this isn't the best view I'm giving on my own gender, but as a future sexologist/scientist I need to be objective, and it's a harsh truth.


For any of you lurkers here, this one is for you. This is reality.
wait till they make robot sex dolls with full AI
 

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At this stage is it safe to say any guy who takes a woman serious on tinder is a sucker? meaning multiple dates without having sex?
That’s not the point though, it basically means that if your chick has tinder (or any dating app for that matter), it ups her odds of cheating on you.
Where is the actual study...
She said in one of the comments that she wasn’t sure if she was gonna publish it. Should’ve only taken several months at most though, it’s been over a year apparently. No link to the study but it might be somewhere in one of the very many studies that exist today.
 

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That’s not the point though, it basically means that if your chick has tinder (or any dating app for that matter), it ups her odds of cheating on you.

She said in one of the comments that she wasn’t sure if she was gonna publish it. Should’ve only taken several months at most though, it’s been over a year apparently. No link to the study but it might be somewhere in one of the very many studies that exist today.
Might be good to make a bs account without yourself in the profile photo so you can monitor the dating sites like match. At least around here it would be easy to spot because hardly any decent looking women on old apps lol.

What would you do if you saw her on old daily?
 

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Might be good to make a bs account without yourself in the profile photo so you can monitor the dating sites like match. At least around here it would be easy to spot because hardly any decent looking women on old apps lol.

What would you do if you saw her on old daily?
Nah that’s way too much work. And if I had a girl that was exclusive with, and I caught her on tinder, I’d confront her about it. She likely wouldn’t give any response to me that actually justifies her being on there though, so while I’d still prolly use her filthy ass for sex, my eyes would definitely start wandering around and I’d stop showing that I care about her wellbeing or about her as an actual person with feelings and emotions like everyone else. I’d just be a lot more ‘fun’ around her. That way she’s still attracted to me and would still want to have sex with me and everything, but the sudden lack of ‘love’/warmth from before would definitely hurt her inside. I’d essentially break her heart while still having sex with her lol. Then eventually I’d try to get her to invite me over to her place, bang her ruthlessly without caring whether I hurt her or whether I’m going too hard, then just leave pretty quickly after without saying much (maybe ‘thanks!’ or ‘thanks for the sex!’ or smth like that to really drive the point home). This way, she’d be laying her bed and feel completely and utterly used, and her self-esteem would be crushed to an all-time low.

I’d ghost her after that, and only respond to her if she were really adamant and sincere in apologizing to me about the whole thing. And even then, she’d still have to be 100% genuine about it, no holding back just to ‘save face’ or whatever bull****, that means you’re still playing games and I don’t take that ****, especially not after you went ahead and tried to see if you could trade up with me.

After all that ****, then, and only then, will I help her pick up the pieces of her broken heart. But the problem is, no ***** is willing to do all that. I don’t even know if it’s get to the stage where she’d feel remorse—bitches nowadays are so into instant gratification that they’ll jump ship on the next sign of a bigger boat. If she really wants to cheat, she will and there’s no stopping it (which is sad because the same ain’t true for the male gender). Not only that, but I’d only get back together with her if I knew for certain that she didn’t actually cheat (if she did, I’d never get back with her lol no way, I’d crush her heart and maybe even mock and humiliate her afterwards, even if she were to apologize to me). The only time I’d get back together with her if she did cheat would be if she was as close to ‘the one’ as possible and/or we had kids or smth. But even then, I’d straight up cheat on her every single chance I get, and maybe even intentionally get caught just to pour salt on the wound. She’d prolly turn lesbian after that lol. But if I did get caught cheating, I wouldn’t care (like hey ***** you started it lol don’t get mad at me, it’s a courtesy that I even cared enough about you to stay with you after despite the fact).

You got me going on a tangent biggoal, jeez
 

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This is a great blackpill thread. It makes any investment in improving yourself to get more attractive with women as a waste of time because you'll just get someone's sloppy seconds if you are lucky enough to find someone to settle for your "improved self". You know from high school or elementary school if you are in the top echelon of men. I mean, even people who have improved themselves on here and got good with women have to deal with the fact there is a power imbalance as long as she has access to Tinder or some other dating app that you'll still end up short at the end of the day.

Look at people like biggoal, they can't even attract an older women that should be shooting fish in a barrel. Even they are hypergamy spoiled out. Keep the blackpill threads coming! Nothing like inspiration to do nothing because most women are slvts who got smashed by a Chad and is making you run through hoops and run game. The funny thing is they just throw themselves and make their interest well known of who they want to deal with.
 

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Nah that’s way too much work. And if I had a girl that was exclusive with, and I caught her on tinder, I’d confront her about it. She likely wouldn’t give any response to me that actually justifies her being on there though, so while I’d still prolly use her filthy ass for sex, my eyes would definitely start wandering around and I’d stop showing that I care about her wellbeing or about her as an actual person with feelings and emotions like everyone else. I’d just be a lot more ‘fun’ around her. That way she’s still attracted to me and would still want to have sex with me and everything, but the sudden lack of ‘love’/warmth from before would definitely hurt her inside. I’d essentially break her heart while still having sex with her lol. Then eventually I’d try to get her to invite me over to her place, bang her ruthlessly without caring whether I hurt her or whether I’m going too hard, then just leave pretty quickly after without saying much (maybe ‘thanks!’ or ‘thanks for the sex!’ or smth like that to really drive the point home). This way, she’d be laying her bed and feel completely and utterly used, and her self-esteem would be crushed to an all-time low.

I’d ghost her after that, and only respond to her if she were really adamant and sincere in apologizing to me about the whole thing. And even then, she’d still have to be 100% genuine about it, no holding back just to ‘save face’ or whatever bull****, that means you’re still playing games and I don’t take that ****, especially not after you went ahead and tried to see if you could trade up with me.

After all that ****, then, and only then, will I help her pick up the pieces of her broken heart. But the problem is, no ***** is willing to do all that. I don’t even know if it’s get to the stage where she’d feel remorse—bitches nowadays are so into instant gratification that they’ll jump ship on the next sign of a bigger boat. If she really wants to cheat, she will and there’s no stopping it (which is sad because the same ain’t true for the male gender). Not only that, but I’d only get back together with her if I knew for certain that she didn’t actually cheat (if she did, I’d never get back with her lol no way, I’d crush her heart and maybe even mock and humiliate her afterwards, even if she were to apologize to me). The only time I’d get back together with her if she did cheat would be if she was as close to ‘the one’ as possible and/or we had kids or smth. But even then, I’d straight up cheat on her every single chance I get, and maybe even intentionally get caught just to pour salt on the wound. She’d prolly turn lesbian after that lol. But if I did get caught cheating, I wouldn’t care (like hey ***** you started it lol don’t get mad at me, it’s a courtesy that I even cared enough about you to stay with you after despite the fact).

You got me going on a tangent biggoal, jeez
You really have no control when it comes to it. That's all I'm reading here. Your whole being and ego is reacting to her because she's controlling the frame.
 

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The Greek said : a wife for baby, a slave for dirty-violent sex, a mistress for pleasure sex.
(Something like that)

Back in the days, men had "side" for all kind of sex and yeah long-term partner weren't always considered for the "dirty stuff" that made us "taken male to go on a side Plate" .

Women do the same now
Greeks were child raping homos
 

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You really have no control when it comes to it.
I know that my guy, that’s why I also stated this:
no ***** is willing to do all that. I don’t even know if it’s get to the stage where she’d feel remorse—bitches nowadays are so into instant gratification that they’ll jump ship on the next sign of a bigger boat.
Your whole being and ego is reacting to her because she's controlling the frame.
I mean, I guess?

It’s just an adaptation to a change in the dynamics. You don’t treat a girlfriend the same way you’d treat a ****buddy. And when you demote a ***** to ****buddy, treating them as your girlfriend still when you KNOW she’s just another hoe makes you a simp. You might as well send her flowers and chocolate while crying to her face why she doesn’t love you lol.

It’s not even reacting out of ‘ego’ either. I know you think that because of the whole ‘break her heart’ stuff, but that’s a necessary process in giving her another chance. My actions are done out of altruism, not spite. If I REALLY was an *******, I’d just give her the ugh-I-can’t-believe-she’s-one-of-those looks and then never talk to her ever again. She’d prolly blow up my phone, and then become more unstable for the next guy bc it’d essentially be another form of ‘alpha widowing’ her, as Desdinova would say.
 
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