"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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so i slept with this girl two weeks ago. made me breakfast in the morning. haven't talked to her in two weeks. Sent her a text that I am going to be in her town (chicago) next weekend if she wanted to meet up/grab a bite to eat.

She replies: No can do. Hope you have a great weekend though!


Kind of caught me off guard.

Haven't replied back yet. suggestions reply
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Probably right. Although, when I went out with her, she wanted her friends to get me drunk so she could take advantage of me.
Not sure if she is a slut, as she had the condoms and everything ready at her place. Almost like she used me for the sex. haha .

I did call her the next week, but I merely got a text from her. She stated
"Just left work, long day."
I was expecting a phone call back. I hate text talk.
 
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On a side note:
Is a girl considered a slut (who is not in a relationship) if they have condoms at their house? Or are they just sexually responsible?
 
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bigsrve1aj said:
so i slept with this girl two weeks ago. made me breakfast in the morning. haven't talked to her in two weeks. Sent her a text that I am going to be in her town (chicago) next weekend if she wanted to meet up/grab a bite to eat.

She replies: No can do. Hope you have a great weekend though!


Kind of caught me off guard.

Haven't replied back yet. suggestions reply
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^^thats a 1 fukc ho.... many women are just Fing as many men as they can just 1 time.. its very common... you need to go find other women.. same old story..
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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bigsrve1aj said:
On a side note:
Is a girl considered a slut (who is not in a relationship) if they have condoms at their house? Or are they just sexually responsible?
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Like PHAT Rabbit said....irrelevant.

Judge the female by how she treats you. Not by whether or not she keeps condoms.

That's something you'd read on one of those bullsh*t Yahoo articles: "3 Signs Your Girlfriend is not a Keeper".
 
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