"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Time to move on?

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so i slept with this girl two weeks ago. made me breakfast in the morning. haven't talked to her in two weeks. Sent her a text that I am going to be in her town (chicago) next weekend if she wanted to meet up/grab a bite to eat.

She replies: No can do. Hope you have a great weekend though!


Kind of caught me off guard.

Haven't replied back yet. suggestions reply
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Probably right. Although, when I went out with her, she wanted her friends to get me drunk so she could take advantage of me.
Not sure if she is a slut, as she had the condoms and everything ready at her place. Almost like she used me for the sex. haha .

I did call her the next week, but I merely got a text from her. She stated
"Just left work, long day."
I was expecting a phone call back. I hate text talk.
 

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On a side note:
Is a girl considered a slut (who is not in a relationship) if they have condoms at their house? Or are they just sexually responsible?
 

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bigsrve1aj said:
so i slept with this girl two weeks ago. made me breakfast in the morning. haven't talked to her in two weeks. Sent her a text that I am going to be in her town (chicago) next weekend if she wanted to meet up/grab a bite to eat.

She replies: No can do. Hope you have a great weekend though!


Kind of caught me off guard.

Haven't replied back yet. suggestions reply
^^thats a 1 fukc ho.... many women are just Fing as many men as they can just 1 time.. its very common... you need to go find other women.. same old story..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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bigsrve1aj said:
On a side note:
Is a girl considered a slut (who is not in a relationship) if they have condoms at their house? Or are they just sexually responsible?
Like PHAT Rabbit said....irrelevant.

Judge the female by how she treats you. Not by whether or not she keeps condoms.

That's something you'd read on one of those bullsh*t Yahoo articles: "3 Signs Your Girlfriend is not a Keeper".
 
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