"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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so i slept with this girl two weeks ago. made me breakfast in the morning. haven't talked to her in two weeks. Sent her a text that I am going to be in her town (chicago) next weekend if she wanted to meet up/grab a bite to eat.

She replies: No can do. Hope you have a great weekend though!


Kind of caught me off guard.

Haven't replied back yet. suggestions reply
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Probably right. Although, when I went out with her, she wanted her friends to get me drunk so she could take advantage of me.
Not sure if she is a slut, as she had the condoms and everything ready at her place. Almost like she used me for the sex. haha .

I did call her the next week, but I merely got a text from her. She stated
"Just left work, long day."
I was expecting a phone call back. I hate text talk.
 
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On a side note:
Is a girl considered a slut (who is not in a relationship) if they have condoms at their house? Or are they just sexually responsible?
 
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bigsrve1aj said:
so i slept with this girl two weeks ago. made me breakfast in the morning. haven't talked to her in two weeks. Sent her a text that I am going to be in her town (chicago) next weekend if she wanted to meet up/grab a bite to eat.

She replies: No can do. Hope you have a great weekend though!


Kind of caught me off guard.

Haven't replied back yet. suggestions reply
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^^thats a 1 fukc ho.... many women are just Fing as many men as they can just 1 time.. its very common... you need to go find other women.. same old story..
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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bigsrve1aj said:
On a side note:
Is a girl considered a slut (who is not in a relationship) if they have condoms at their house? Or are they just sexually responsible?
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Like PHAT Rabbit said....irrelevant.

Judge the female by how she treats you. Not by whether or not she keeps condoms.

That's something you'd read on one of those bullsh*t Yahoo articles: "3 Signs Your Girlfriend is not a Keeper".
 
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