"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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so i slept with this girl two weeks ago. made me breakfast in the morning. haven't talked to her in two weeks. Sent her a text that I am going to be in her town (chicago) next weekend if she wanted to meet up/grab a bite to eat.

She replies: No can do. Hope you have a great weekend though!


Kind of caught me off guard.

Haven't replied back yet. suggestions reply
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Probably right. Although, when I went out with her, she wanted her friends to get me drunk so she could take advantage of me.
Not sure if she is a slut, as she had the condoms and everything ready at her place. Almost like she used me for the sex. haha .

I did call her the next week, but I merely got a text from her. She stated
"Just left work, long day."
I was expecting a phone call back. I hate text talk.
 
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On a side note:
Is a girl considered a slut (who is not in a relationship) if they have condoms at their house? Or are they just sexually responsible?
 
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bigsrve1aj said:
so i slept with this girl two weeks ago. made me breakfast in the morning. haven't talked to her in two weeks. Sent her a text that I am going to be in her town (chicago) next weekend if she wanted to meet up/grab a bite to eat.

She replies: No can do. Hope you have a great weekend though!


Kind of caught me off guard.

Haven't replied back yet. suggestions reply
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^^thats a 1 fukc ho.... many women are just Fing as many men as they can just 1 time.. its very common... you need to go find other women.. same old story..
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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bigsrve1aj said:
On a side note:
Is a girl considered a slut (who is not in a relationship) if they have condoms at their house? Or are they just sexually responsible?
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Like PHAT Rabbit said....irrelevant.

Judge the female by how she treats you. Not by whether or not she keeps condoms.

That's something you'd read on one of those bullsh*t Yahoo articles: "3 Signs Your Girlfriend is not a Keeper".
 
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