"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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-Time to break your limit is now.

Oxide

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This is in part inspired by Sammo's post. (Good job man)




Everyday we are pushing our limits.. in the workroom, we push those reps untill our muscles burn and we cant go on. In class, we study til we cant process information anymore, so we say "fukk this" and take a break. With girls, we talk, and when we hit a barrier, we back off... or..



Yesterday, March 1st, I have made a promise to myself that i am going to keep for the rest of my life. I was walking home, thinking about all the girls around my college campus, my previous experiences, and my friends and the girls they see. Then i stopped, and promised to myself, that for the rest of my life I will not sleep with any woman that i am not attracted to. Never. For the rest of my life. This might seem like a goal for a lot of guys, but the next thing they say is "Well, sometime i break it and have sex with some average girl just to get some." I used to do that sometimes as well. Well, not anymore, not ever again.




Today, i am making another attempt to break a different limit. This one i will actually need your guy's help, becuase this is fukking hard.


I know this topic has been ridden for awhile, but i am taking it to the next level for myself. No mastrubation for a month. Starting today, March 2nd, 2005. Now the longest i've ever gone was about 8 days..so this is going to be a b1tch, that is why im hoping someone else jumps in on this with me.



Now, for all the audience at home, come up with something you really want to challange yourself with, and write what it is. I want it to be something big. Something that takes a lot of willpower.

If you are out if ideas, here is a start: No internet or no TV for a month. No pop, or junkfood. No kissing girls's asses for the rest of your life :p


It is time to see what we are really made of, the time to break our limits is NOW.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What is this? Lent?

Masturbation helps prevent prostate cancer.
 

Oxide

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Baruch, the virgin's view on sex is completely different from non virgins. Your standards are naturally high cause you want that first to mean something. Now if had the same opinion after you have sex a number of times with different women it would be much more valuable.


padrote, no this is not a lent. This is a test of willpower. When you dont get something you want, you start second guessing yourself, you start making up excuses to stop going..ultimately you give up. I dont want to give up.
 

DeathDealer

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Originally posted by padrote
What is this? Lent?

Masturbation helps prevent prostate cancer.
True.

And to the people who say "STOP MASTURBATING IT'LL WEAKEN YOUR SEX DRIVE" - dude if you bust your nut on the first sex and she wants it again in a couple hours, is your sex drive going to be just as high?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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