"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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-Time to break your limit is now.

Oxide

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This is in part inspired by Sammo's post. (Good job man)




Everyday we are pushing our limits.. in the workroom, we push those reps untill our muscles burn and we cant go on. In class, we study til we cant process information anymore, so we say "fukk this" and take a break. With girls, we talk, and when we hit a barrier, we back off... or..



Yesterday, March 1st, I have made a promise to myself that i am going to keep for the rest of my life. I was walking home, thinking about all the girls around my college campus, my previous experiences, and my friends and the girls they see. Then i stopped, and promised to myself, that for the rest of my life I will not sleep with any woman that i am not attracted to. Never. For the rest of my life. This might seem like a goal for a lot of guys, but the next thing they say is "Well, sometime i break it and have sex with some average girl just to get some." I used to do that sometimes as well. Well, not anymore, not ever again.




Today, i am making another attempt to break a different limit. This one i will actually need your guy's help, becuase this is fukking hard.


I know this topic has been ridden for awhile, but i am taking it to the next level for myself. No mastrubation for a month. Starting today, March 2nd, 2005. Now the longest i've ever gone was about 8 days..so this is going to be a b1tch, that is why im hoping someone else jumps in on this with me.



Now, for all the audience at home, come up with something you really want to challange yourself with, and write what it is. I want it to be something big. Something that takes a lot of willpower.

If you are out if ideas, here is a start: No internet or no TV for a month. No pop, or junkfood. No kissing girls's asses for the rest of your life :p


It is time to see what we are really made of, the time to break our limits is NOW.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What is this? Lent?

Masturbation helps prevent prostate cancer.
 

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Baruch, the virgin's view on sex is completely different from non virgins. Your standards are naturally high cause you want that first to mean something. Now if had the same opinion after you have sex a number of times with different women it would be much more valuable.


padrote, no this is not a lent. This is a test of willpower. When you dont get something you want, you start second guessing yourself, you start making up excuses to stop going..ultimately you give up. I dont want to give up.
 

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Originally posted by padrote
What is this? Lent?

Masturbation helps prevent prostate cancer.
True.

And to the people who say "STOP MASTURBATING IT'LL WEAKEN YOUR SEX DRIVE" - dude if you bust your nut on the first sex and she wants it again in a couple hours, is your sex drive going to be just as high?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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