"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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-Time to break your limit is now.

Oxide

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This is in part inspired by Sammo's post. (Good job man)




Everyday we are pushing our limits.. in the workroom, we push those reps untill our muscles burn and we cant go on. In class, we study til we cant process information anymore, so we say "fukk this" and take a break. With girls, we talk, and when we hit a barrier, we back off... or..



Yesterday, March 1st, I have made a promise to myself that i am going to keep for the rest of my life. I was walking home, thinking about all the girls around my college campus, my previous experiences, and my friends and the girls they see. Then i stopped, and promised to myself, that for the rest of my life I will not sleep with any woman that i am not attracted to. Never. For the rest of my life. This might seem like a goal for a lot of guys, but the next thing they say is "Well, sometime i break it and have sex with some average girl just to get some." I used to do that sometimes as well. Well, not anymore, not ever again.




Today, i am making another attempt to break a different limit. This one i will actually need your guy's help, becuase this is fukking hard.


I know this topic has been ridden for awhile, but i am taking it to the next level for myself. No mastrubation for a month. Starting today, March 2nd, 2005. Now the longest i've ever gone was about 8 days..so this is going to be a b1tch, that is why im hoping someone else jumps in on this with me.



Now, for all the audience at home, come up with something you really want to challange yourself with, and write what it is. I want it to be something big. Something that takes a lot of willpower.

If you are out if ideas, here is a start: No internet or no TV for a month. No pop, or junkfood. No kissing girls's asses for the rest of your life :p


It is time to see what we are really made of, the time to break our limits is NOW.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What is this? Lent?

Masturbation helps prevent prostate cancer.
 

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Baruch, the virgin's view on sex is completely different from non virgins. Your standards are naturally high cause you want that first to mean something. Now if had the same opinion after you have sex a number of times with different women it would be much more valuable.


padrote, no this is not a lent. This is a test of willpower. When you dont get something you want, you start second guessing yourself, you start making up excuses to stop going..ultimately you give up. I dont want to give up.
 

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Originally posted by padrote
What is this? Lent?

Masturbation helps prevent prostate cancer.
True.

And to the people who say "STOP MASTURBATING IT'LL WEAKEN YOUR SEX DRIVE" - dude if you bust your nut on the first sex and she wants it again in a couple hours, is your sex drive going to be just as high?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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