"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I sometimes take months, even years to get the deal done which I think it's a lot of time wasted. I still ocassionally email this chick from another state. Just hoping someday I can bed her. I met her back in 2003, dated her only after she turned 18 or 19, that was less than 2 years ago in 2008. But I escalated too fast and got burned. So, occassionally I email her to re-establish contact and be friend with her again. No, I don't have oneitis. I have moved on and bed another girl and mess around with my EX. I emailed her to see how she was doing yesterday afternoon and got a response today in the morning. Not sure about this but I'm planning to go old school and tell her that "I like her" in my next email and ask if she wants to be with me. How much time do you guys usually take in order to bed a girl?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Wow. You met her when she was 13. You waited 7 years. This is creepy.
 
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and here I thought I was pathetic. I feel better now, thanks XD
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think she was 16 when I first met her. But I was not attracted to her. I'm not attracted to her. I just wanna bed her. You guys still didn't answer my question. How long do you spend to actually bed a girl?
 
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mustfirstregister said:
I met her back in 2003, dated her only after she turned 18 or 19, that was less than 2 years ago in 2008
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2008-2003 = 5 years

18-5 = 13 year old girl
 
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mustfirstregister said:
I think she was 16 when I first met her. But I was not attracted to her. I'm not attracted to her. I just wanna bed her. You guys still didn't answer my question. How long do you spend to actually bed a girl?
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umm, so if your not attracted to her why the effort to sleep with her? And to answer your question, I only try with a girl for a couple of weeks before giving up. I don't wait YEARS for a girl (seriously, wtf is wrong with you?)
 
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I was pursuing other girls too. But sometimes you wanna go back to her because of the challenge to sleep with her. You will never understand you are too young to understand.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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