"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I sometimes take months, even years to get the deal done which I think it's a lot of time wasted. I still ocassionally email this chick from another state. Just hoping someday I can bed her. I met her back in 2003, dated her only after she turned 18 or 19, that was less than 2 years ago in 2008. But I escalated too fast and got burned. So, occassionally I email her to re-establish contact and be friend with her again. No, I don't have oneitis. I have moved on and bed another girl and mess around with my EX. I emailed her to see how she was doing yesterday afternoon and got a response today in the morning. Not sure about this but I'm planning to go old school and tell her that "I like her" in my next email and ask if she wants to be with me. How much time do you guys usually take in order to bed a girl?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wow. You met her when she was 13. You waited 7 years. This is creepy.
 
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and here I thought I was pathetic. I feel better now, thanks XD
 
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Wow
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think she was 16 when I first met her. But I was not attracted to her. I'm not attracted to her. I just wanna bed her. You guys still didn't answer my question. How long do you spend to actually bed a girl?
 
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mustfirstregister said:
I met her back in 2003, dated her only after she turned 18 or 19, that was less than 2 years ago in 2008
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2008-2003 = 5 years

18-5 = 13 year old girl
 
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mustfirstregister said:
I think she was 16 when I first met her. But I was not attracted to her. I'm not attracted to her. I just wanna bed her. You guys still didn't answer my question. How long do you spend to actually bed a girl?
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umm, so if your not attracted to her why the effort to sleep with her? And to answer your question, I only try with a girl for a couple of weeks before giving up. I don't wait YEARS for a girl (seriously, wtf is wrong with you?)
 
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I was pursuing other girls too. But sometimes you wanna go back to her because of the challenge to sleep with her. You will never understand you are too young to understand.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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