"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Time for new clothes again

Desdinova

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This is such a pain in the ass. My body has mutated so much. First, I did a cutting cycle and lost 25 lbs. I had to go out and buy new pants. Now, my quads have exploded from working out. Guess what? My goddam jeans are too tight around the legs now. Off I go to spend more money on pants.

Who else is experiencing this huge expense from working out?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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simon

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Jeans that used to fit me ~10 weeks ago, I can't even get past my thighs. I love it :D
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Yeah, it's a pain. It helps to have a good tailor.
 

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I know a guy who used to be pretty chubby.

He lost alot of weight over afew months and threw all his old clothes out and bought new stuff.

He then started lifting weights and getting bigger again.

He had to buy new clothes again.
 

mrRuckus

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Desdinova said:
This is such a pain in the ass. My body has mutated so much. First, I did a cutting cycle and lost 25 lbs. I had to go out and buy new pants. Now, my quads have exploded from working out. Guess what? My goddam jeans are too tight around the legs now. Off I go to spend more money on pants.

Who else is experiencing this huge expense from working out?

None of my dress pants fit really well and the ones i can get on my bulge in my groin shows because of my quads pulling the material and my girl won't let me wear them out cause girls will look. heh. The pants were all loose when i bought them.

Only 2 pairs of jeans out of like 6 fit me anymore. 1 of those pairs i bought as loose fit and yeaaa... they're gonna need replaced in a couple months. The bad thing though is that my waist is really that much bigger. They're just tight in the legs and groin. My other pair was just huge to begin with and i still have to wear a belt with them.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Soprano

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i aint got no shorts that fit me no more son i gotta get new ones it's a pain in the ass, but it comes wit changin your body
 

Drum&Bass

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same problem as everyone else (i actually like having this problem ). I use to be a 31 now i'm a 36 i've given up on any under wear as well, but the bulge is awesome and women love the glutes.
 
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