"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Time for new clothes again

Desdinova

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This is such a pain in the ass. My body has mutated so much. First, I did a cutting cycle and lost 25 lbs. I had to go out and buy new pants. Now, my quads have exploded from working out. Guess what? My goddam jeans are too tight around the legs now. Off I go to spend more money on pants.

Who else is experiencing this huge expense from working out?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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simon

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Jeans that used to fit me ~10 weeks ago, I can't even get past my thighs. I love it :D
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Yeah, it's a pain. It helps to have a good tailor.
 

Quiksilver

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I know a guy who used to be pretty chubby.

He lost alot of weight over afew months and threw all his old clothes out and bought new stuff.

He then started lifting weights and getting bigger again.

He had to buy new clothes again.
 

mrRuckus

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Desdinova said:
This is such a pain in the ass. My body has mutated so much. First, I did a cutting cycle and lost 25 lbs. I had to go out and buy new pants. Now, my quads have exploded from working out. Guess what? My goddam jeans are too tight around the legs now. Off I go to spend more money on pants.

Who else is experiencing this huge expense from working out?

None of my dress pants fit really well and the ones i can get on my bulge in my groin shows because of my quads pulling the material and my girl won't let me wear them out cause girls will look. heh. The pants were all loose when i bought them.

Only 2 pairs of jeans out of like 6 fit me anymore. 1 of those pairs i bought as loose fit and yeaaa... they're gonna need replaced in a couple months. The bad thing though is that my waist is really that much bigger. They're just tight in the legs and groin. My other pair was just huge to begin with and i still have to wear a belt with them.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Soprano

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i aint got no shorts that fit me no more son i gotta get new ones it's a pain in the ass, but it comes wit changin your body
 

Drum&Bass

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same problem as everyone else (i actually like having this problem ). I use to be a 31 now i'm a 36 i've given up on any under wear as well, but the bulge is awesome and women love the glutes.
 
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