"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Tight girls?

bliss420

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Ok I haven't come across this problem in awhile so I forgot how much it sucks. I had some girl over last nite that i made out with the other night. We chilled, listened to some tunes and ended up fooling around again. She's pretty tight tho. I got all her clothes off except her panties. She kept making me try to come using her hand which obviously was not happening and she wouldn't let me finger her. Eventually i said i had to do homework and got her to leave. Any suggestions what approach to take with girls like this? she also has a tonguering and i made a couple not-so-subtle comments about her blowing me.. lol.. advice is welcome boys.. if this is gonna happen again i dont wanna waste my time but if i can get in there i wouldn't mind
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Moved to Discussion.
 

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I think it's just the ASD (she wouldn't call it that obviously). She probably just needs another session (or a few more sessions) before she's comfortable, especially if there is no dating history.
 

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whats ASD? and yah i only met her like a week ago so i guess i'll give it another meeting or two to guage how she really is
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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if youre feeling ballsy, just grab her head and gently but definitively stick it on your ****
 

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Don't push her faster than she want's to go. You may scare her off.

You're nearly there though. Get her over again. The more you do, the more comfortable she'll be. You'll get there either the next time or the next...
 

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One thing...

A hell of a good foreplay!!!


Some chicks are like that.
Especially when you are with them in bed the first time...

Dayum I had to warm one up HOURS!
In the end she reacted in the normal woman way to react my foreplay by rubbing her genital area against me leaving some pússy juice stains on my white CK boxers. ;)

And that's the end of ASD and foreplay!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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