"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ok I haven't come across this problem in awhile so I forgot how much it sucks. I had some girl over last nite that i made out with the other night. We chilled, listened to some tunes and ended up fooling around again. She's pretty tight tho. I got all her clothes off except her panties. She kept making me try to come using her hand which obviously was not happening and she wouldn't let me finger her. Eventually i said i had to do homework and got her to leave. Any suggestions what approach to take with girls like this? she also has a tonguering and i made a couple not-so-subtle comments about her blowing me.. lol.. advice is welcome boys.. if this is gonna happen again i dont wanna waste my time but if i can get in there i wouldn't mind
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Moved to Discussion.
 
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I think it's just the ASD (she wouldn't call it that obviously). She probably just needs another session (or a few more sessions) before she's comfortable, especially if there is no dating history.
 
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whats ASD? and yah i only met her like a week ago so i guess i'll give it another meeting or two to guage how she really is
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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if youre feeling ballsy, just grab her head and gently but definitively stick it on your ****
 
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Don't push her faster than she want's to go. You may scare her off.

You're nearly there though. Get her over again. The more you do, the more comfortable she'll be. You'll get there either the next time or the next...
 
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One thing...

A hell of a good foreplay!!!


Some chicks are like that.
Especially when you are with them in bed the first time...

Dayum I had to warm one up HOURS!
In the end she reacted in the normal woman way to react my foreplay by rubbing her genital area against me leaving some pússy juice stains on my white CK boxers. ;)

And that's the end of ASD and foreplay!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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