Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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bliss420

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Ok I haven't come across this problem in awhile so I forgot how much it sucks. I had some girl over last nite that i made out with the other night. We chilled, listened to some tunes and ended up fooling around again. She's pretty tight tho. I got all her clothes off except her panties. She kept making me try to come using her hand which obviously was not happening and she wouldn't let me finger her. Eventually i said i had to do homework and got her to leave. Any suggestions what approach to take with girls like this? she also has a tonguering and i made a couple not-so-subtle comments about her blowing me.. lol.. advice is welcome boys.. if this is gonna happen again i dont wanna waste my time but if i can get in there i wouldn't mind
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Eternal

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Moved to Discussion.
 

JohnJones

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I think it's just the ASD (she wouldn't call it that obviously). She probably just needs another session (or a few more sessions) before she's comfortable, especially if there is no dating history.
 

bliss420

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whats ASD? and yah i only met her like a week ago so i guess i'll give it another meeting or two to guage how she really is
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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isotope

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if youre feeling ballsy, just grab her head and gently but definitively stick it on your ****
 

Reto

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Don't push her faster than she want's to go. You may scare her off.

You're nearly there though. Get her over again. The more you do, the more comfortable she'll be. You'll get there either the next time or the next...
 

Hot Ice

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One thing...

A hell of a good foreplay!!!


Some chicks are like that.
Especially when you are with them in bed the first time...

Dayum I had to warm one up HOURS!
In the end she reacted in the normal woman way to react my foreplay by rubbing her genital area against me leaving some pússy juice stains on my white CK boxers. ;)

And that's the end of ASD and foreplay!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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