"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Tickling after sex

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Not as a fetish in any way, it's just that when she's laying naked and vulnerable I feel a need to overpower her (I'm big) and tickle her until she can't stop laughing.
What do you think about this? Should I keep doing it?
I've searched tickling in the archive and nothing's come up.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Why you even asking. Its literally the most innocent, harmless thing you can do to somebody.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Shrubber101 said:
Why you even asking. Its literally the most innocent, harmless thing you can do to somebody.
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Exactly why I'm asking. Do women see it that way too? Because if they do shouldn't it be avoided?
I mean strictly after sex tickling.
 
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Why would you need to avoid it if they see it as harmless?
 
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Because harmlessness brings about feelings of familiarity that should be avoided above all to maintain peak sexual desire.
What I'm asking is if the overpowering dominance is stronger than the feeling of tickling friendliness or the other way around.
 
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Depends on the girl.

Some of them tickle me first. That means war.
 
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I don't think you should. Tickling can be a very dangerous addiction. You may find that if you keep indulging this that you may need intervention. And the worst part is that, like drunk driving, you are also putting others at risk with your tickle-mongering. Shame!

(sarcasm)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You’re just being flirtatious. The way you describe it is a weird thing but there’s nothing wrong with having fun with a girl.
 
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She’s supposed to relax afterwards and think back about how great the sex was.…
Tickle and play as a seduction lead up before the sex.
 
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You're over thinking this way too much. If you want to tickle her then tickle her. I highly doubt she'll see you as of a less of a man for it.
If you're that worried, just give her arse a playfully slap afterwards to remind her who's boss.
 
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you should playing her banjo guitar before penetrate her bro with irish dance.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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