"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Throwing Huge Parties
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Scars
Master Don Juan
For my birthday I bought one keg, and the rest of my friends pitched in for another one. We also charged anybody who came a couple bucks and would hand them a cup. I made about half of my money back, which isn't too bad considering it was a wild night.
The key is preparation. You have to be sending invites weeks in advanced. People knew about my party 3 weeks before it even happened. I also invited EVERYBODY. I hit up old friends on myspace, if I ran into people I would tell them about it, handed my number out a lot, told people to spread the word.. etc.. I can honestly say I invited over 100+ people. And the turn out (when it was at it's peak) was probably about 60 people. I'd say half of those people were people I actually invited, the others were people I didn't know who heard about it and jumped on the band wagon. So the more people you invite, the more your turn out rate should be. Don't be disappointed if people don't come. Don't be blowing up your buddies telling them "where you at". You left everybody else do that for you. If the party is good, people will want to bring their friends. Also, invite as many girls as you can. All your cute friends. Girls will keep the guys around, and the girls even longer. If you have a sausage fest party then it will show that your value is low. People will get bored, and leave. People go to parties to get drunk and hook up. Girls love competition. If a girl shows up anywhere and automatically knows she is the hottest girl there, she will be a b!tch and boring, ensue drama, and annoy people to the point of leaving. If you have a good number of cute girls, it evens the playing field a bit. There will be a lot of competitiveness, and it actually allows people more opportunity to hook up. Not just because the numbers are higher, but simply because competition will put a girl in her place. You've got to have them all fighting to be queen bee.
So plan weeks in advance. Get the word out asap. And invite a ridiculous amount of people. Expect about only half of the people you invite to show up. So if you want 30 people to come, expect to invite about 60-75 people. And make sure that there is plenty of alcohol for everybody. Do not run out. There's also little details such as music and stuff, but it's not really all that important. The PEOPLE are what make the party. Wouldn't be a bad idea to have a good DJ though. Or just make a playlist on your ipod and hook it up to some stereos. That's what I do.
Good luck.
-Scars
If you build it they will come!
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Scars said:
Great Advice. I think I should bring 90% girls. I have thrown a couple of parties in the past, when I was younger. Most of the time, it was about 10 guys and zero girls. So, I guess, I need to do work on making close lady friends. The problem is, if they need to be decent friends for them to show up. I can't rely, on my guy friends to bring girls. It will make me look bad. So, if I invite a lot girls it will be less likely to be a sausage fest.