"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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throwing big parties...and keeping plates apart

dj_china

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so my birthday is coming up and I'm thinking of throwing a sick party. the problem is... all my plates would expect to be invited, and I don't really have a good reason not to invite them.

Also, my close friends are in 3 different social circles, and I think this would be a great opportunity to merge them, get them to meet each other, etc. I also happen to have one plate in each social circle. They know I'm not exclusive with them, but it would still be a pretty terrible idea for my plates to meet each other...

suggestions?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Thatfeel21

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I've had something similar happen before, although with only 2 plates. The key is to give them all equal attention, and to act like nothing is going on between any of these said girls cuz girls love drama. Whatever chick stays the latest gets the d1ck!
 

Crow

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This sounds like a recipe for disaster. Either throw separate parties or just invite your no. 1 plate. If they meet each other, expect hilarity to ensue.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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