"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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throwing big parties...and keeping plates apart

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dj_china

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so my birthday is coming up and I'm thinking of throwing a sick party. the problem is... all my plates would expect to be invited, and I don't really have a good reason not to invite them.

Also, my close friends are in 3 different social circles, and I think this would be a great opportunity to merge them, get them to meet each other, etc. I also happen to have one plate in each social circle. They know I'm not exclusive with them, but it would still be a pretty terrible idea for my plates to meet each other...

suggestions?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I've had something similar happen before, although with only 2 plates. The key is to give them all equal attention, and to act like nothing is going on between any of these said girls cuz girls love drama. Whatever chick stays the latest gets the d1ck!
 
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This sounds like a recipe for disaster. Either throw separate parties or just invite your no. 1 plate. If they meet each other, expect hilarity to ensue.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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