"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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throwing big parties...and keeping plates apart

dj_china

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so my birthday is coming up and I'm thinking of throwing a sick party. the problem is... all my plates would expect to be invited, and I don't really have a good reason not to invite them.

Also, my close friends are in 3 different social circles, and I think this would be a great opportunity to merge them, get them to meet each other, etc. I also happen to have one plate in each social circle. They know I'm not exclusive with them, but it would still be a pretty terrible idea for my plates to meet each other...

suggestions?
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Thatfeel21

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I've had something similar happen before, although with only 2 plates. The key is to give them all equal attention, and to act like nothing is going on between any of these said girls cuz girls love drama. Whatever chick stays the latest gets the d1ck!
 

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This sounds like a recipe for disaster. Either throw separate parties or just invite your no. 1 plate. If they meet each other, expect hilarity to ensue.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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