"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Threesome

Southbound29

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Girl I'm seeing brought up the idea of a threesome last night. We talked about it and I agreed to it. Immediately after, she started showing me pics of the other chick and asking when I'd like to do it.

Is this most likely something she has already been planning ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Black Widow Void

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I'm no authority. Closest for me was making out with two girls in the back seat of a car (unfortunately, clothed).

A word of advice though; Your mileage may vary, but a close friend had his girl consent to a threesome and here's what he told me.
He said that he regretted it. Strange. Right? He went on to say that following the threesome, his relationship with his gal was stilted and never quite the same.

If you are asking forum members of your gal's motives - rather than asking her directly, I wonder if there may be some relationship instability; and the threesome addition may possibly further upset your relationship dynamic.
 

andreihaha

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If she's just a "girl you're seeing" it could just be a sh1t test.
Either way, I'd be really vague and passive about it, not showing a lot of interest. Like this:
Her: So, have you ever thought about having a threesome?
Me: Yeah.
Her: So, would you do it?
Me: Yeah, I guess in the right circumstances, I would.
Her: So how about the 2 of us and my friend? Take a look, what do you say?
Me: Yeah, she is attractive.
Her: More attractive than me?(Trap)
Me: Yeah, totally. Haha. No, you're still a little hotter.
(If it's a sh1t test, you passed. If she's actually considering doing it, you're telling her she will still be the favourite in the 3some, giving her an incentive).
Her: Hmm, so the girl is actually my roommate. Should I bring her here?
Me: Unzip.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Suave88

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Girl I'm seeing brought up the idea of a threesome last night. We talked about it and I agreed to it. Immediately after, she started showing me pics of the other chick and asking when I'd like to do it.

Is this most likely something she has already been planning ?
Very likely! She and her girlfriend.
 

KindredSpiritzz

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Yea even fat chics huh
depends on how fat and how ugly, everyone has different tolerances. One other thing I would suggest is video taping the encounter, it's always fun to look back on and you and your chick would probably get off watching it afterwards too.
 

KindredSpiritzz

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Just set the camera up where they can see it, don't hide it. Worst case is they say no way and you put it away. I'd suggest a corner of the room away from the bed so its not right up in their face. I videoed both of mine and im happy I did. Worth a shot anyways, those memories don't come around often. If they are kinky enough for a 3some they are probably kinky enough to be videoed.
Hell now that I think about it, most women I bang I end up digging out my cell phone for some pictures or video at some point. Most just give token resistance and then pretty soon they are posing.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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