"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Threesome

Southbound29

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Girl I'm seeing brought up the idea of a threesome last night. We talked about it and I agreed to it. Immediately after, she started showing me pics of the other chick and asking when I'd like to do it.

Is this most likely something she has already been planning ?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Black Widow Void

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I'm no authority. Closest for me was making out with two girls in the back seat of a car (unfortunately, clothed).

A word of advice though; Your mileage may vary, but a close friend had his girl consent to a threesome and here's what he told me.
He said that he regretted it. Strange. Right? He went on to say that following the threesome, his relationship with his gal was stilted and never quite the same.

If you are asking forum members of your gal's motives - rather than asking her directly, I wonder if there may be some relationship instability; and the threesome addition may possibly further upset your relationship dynamic.
 

andreihaha

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If she's just a "girl you're seeing" it could just be a sh1t test.
Either way, I'd be really vague and passive about it, not showing a lot of interest. Like this:
Her: So, have you ever thought about having a threesome?
Me: Yeah.
Her: So, would you do it?
Me: Yeah, I guess in the right circumstances, I would.
Her: So how about the 2 of us and my friend? Take a look, what do you say?
Me: Yeah, she is attractive.
Her: More attractive than me?(Trap)
Me: Yeah, totally. Haha. No, you're still a little hotter.
(If it's a sh1t test, you passed. If she's actually considering doing it, you're telling her she will still be the favourite in the 3some, giving her an incentive).
Her: Hmm, so the girl is actually my roommate. Should I bring her here?
Me: Unzip.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Suave88

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Girl I'm seeing brought up the idea of a threesome last night. We talked about it and I agreed to it. Immediately after, she started showing me pics of the other chick and asking when I'd like to do it.

Is this most likely something she has already been planning ?
Very likely! She and her girlfriend.
 

KindredSpiritzz

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Yea even fat chics huh
depends on how fat and how ugly, everyone has different tolerances. One other thing I would suggest is video taping the encounter, it's always fun to look back on and you and your chick would probably get off watching it afterwards too.
 

KindredSpiritzz

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Just set the camera up where they can see it, don't hide it. Worst case is they say no way and you put it away. I'd suggest a corner of the room away from the bed so its not right up in their face. I videoed both of mine and im happy I did. Worth a shot anyways, those memories don't come around often. If they are kinky enough for a 3some they are probably kinky enough to be videoed.
Hell now that I think about it, most women I bang I end up digging out my cell phone for some pictures or video at some point. Most just give token resistance and then pretty soon they are posing.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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