Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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three months...and she isn't giving it up

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She's a virgin.

And she doesn't seem to eager for me to isolate her...so she just says she doesn't want to lie to her parents as to where she's going.

Anyway, she's very cute and I sense that she has feelings for me but I'm wondering what the best way is for me to comminicate dissatisfaction at our lack of sex w/o coming of as desperate. Isn't even safe to broach the subject in conversation...?:confused:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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NEXT
 

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Originally posted by coolguy676767
NEXT
I've been thinking about that...

Except that it seems she really does like me...
 

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Originally posted by hopeful loner
I've been thinking about that...

Except that it seems she really does like me...
Yeah but you could waste another 3 months, think about how much time you have already used on her, that you could have been getting other girls with. Unless you want a LTR with her then next her ass soon.
 

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Originally posted by coolguy676767
Yeah but you could waste another 3 months, think about how much time you have already used on her, that you could have been getting other girls with. Unless you want a LTR with her then next her ass soon.
Well I am sort of in an LTR with her already. :/
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by hopeful loner
Well I am sort of in an LTR with her already. :/
Well then you have 2 choices, either next her or start liking her for her and respect that she hasnt given it up.

Its up to you, only you can decide that. There is nothing wrong with truely likeing a girl and having LTR even if she doesnt put out, but you just have to make sure your alright with that.
 

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hit up other girls while at the same time warming up this one
 

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Originally posted by john_1234
hit up other girls while at the same time warming up this one
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This is the only thing you can do if you plan on waiting personally if she is taking this long I would have nexted but thats just me. You obviously want to stay with her because you waited 3 months already. So just have some Fbs on the side, or else your going to be wasting months of not getting any pusvy.

How did you start the LTR without having sex first????
How the hell is she LTR if yall didn't fuvk, but then again if its HS then I understand because alot of guys I've seen go out with girls and don't fuvk until a year or so which is mind boggling.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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