"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Three gay guys have a crush on me

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Who Dares Win

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Well at least you can aim for an amazing circle jerk.

Ok no jokes, gay people for what I heard are very visual which means that you're not ugly if they come after you, you probably make some mistake when it comes of girls, approaching and dating.

So the solution are either to find out what needs to be fixed in your behaviour or get those guys to dress like women and buy alchool.
 

ERB

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Alright Don Juans, I know it's tempting to joke about this. As WDW said this is not a bad thing at all. I had a spell around 10-12 years ago when gay guys where all about me. Gays are usually particular about looks and style, good thing. Befriend them, explaining that you are straight. Can learn from these people.
 

NSX-R

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I feel you bro. All the gay people I meet have a crush on me. It's really annoying but it's a good signal because it shows that you are very handsome.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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dustmuffin

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He can be the conductor when they pull the train..
 

Dhoulmagus

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I've given up. I'm just waiting for a woman to fall from the sky.
 
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