"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Three gay guys have a crush on me

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Who Dares Win

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Well at least you can aim for an amazing circle jerk.

Ok no jokes, gay people for what I heard are very visual which means that you're not ugly if they come after you, you probably make some mistake when it comes of girls, approaching and dating.

So the solution are either to find out what needs to be fixed in your behaviour or get those guys to dress like women and buy alchool.
 

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Alright Don Juans, I know it's tempting to joke about this. As WDW said this is not a bad thing at all. I had a spell around 10-12 years ago when gay guys where all about me. Gays are usually particular about looks and style, good thing. Befriend them, explaining that you are straight. Can learn from these people.
 

NSX-R

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I feel you bro. All the gay people I meet have a crush on me. It's really annoying but it's a good signal because it shows that you are very handsome.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dustmuffin

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He can be the conductor when they pull the train..
 

Dhoulmagus

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I've given up. I'm just waiting for a woman to fall from the sky.
 
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