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Three dates, one day - Challenge accepted

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So I'm working from home today as things have calmed down at work and I had a Dentist appointment in the morning.

Two girls I've been texting back and forth from tinder have been dying to meet me but as I've been so busy with work and hobbies (told myself I would NEVER compromise on my hobbies for any woman again after my breakup) I haven't had the time. One is a HB8 Italiana and the other a HB8 English nurse.

As I knew I was working from home today I arranged to meet the Italiana today at around 5pm, before my date with another Italiana (who is also a HB8) with the SAME name as the HB8 Italiana I mentioned earlier. Yes...it's confusing.

I have never fvcked more than one new girl in a day so this challenge is more for my own fun than anything else.

Date 1 - English nurse - First date - Around 2pm - 10 minutes walk from my place - Grab some lunch and a drink with the aim of getting her back to my place. Giving myself a 3 hour window from meet to bang, otherwise end the date and move on to...

Date 2 - Italiana 1 - First date - Around 5pm - 10 minutes walk from my place - grab a drink and see where things go. She is flying out to Italy for a week tomorrow and she has made a point of telling her place is free. Definitely going for the bang...

Date 3 - Italiana 2 - Third date - Around 9pm - In the city - grab a drink, then meal, then a few more drinks followed by some dancing and ideally back to her place. I like this one. She is a cool girl. She was dying to bring me back to her place the last date. She was the one bringing up sex. I would be very surprised if sex didn't happen with this one tonight.

And the funny thing, I could call my ex up now and probably make it four...although I guess it wouldn't count as she's not a "new" one. Phew! What a time to be alive!
 

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1 or 2 will flake. You should always stack dates like this.
 

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Three bangs in one day ?..... I salute you young blood..

No way I can do that now... lol.
 

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Good luck , looking forward to your follow up
 

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First date over - English nurse.

We meet for drinks and lunch. Chat for an hour or so. Somewhere in the conversation we talk about past relationships. She mentions she is bisexual. In my mind I'm thinking, "Ok that means she is DTF".

Long story short, get her back to my place, we chat, kiss, to the bedroom. She tells me "we're not having sex". I get her hot for it, bra comes off, nice t*ts. She tells me I'm making her "want it" but she is pretty adamant. Doesn't want to feel like a ONS.

Understandable she thinks I'm a player when she sees my homemade ****tail bar and shredded six pack...happens quite a bit. Had a few girls do a180 and got some LMR. Normally able to overcome but not this time. I wrap things up, walk her to the door. She wants me to call her. Tells me things will be different "next time".

Ok then. On to the next date with Italiana in 30 mins! Boom!

Edit: forgot to mention. Bumped into my bloody ex as the h0e moved 30 seconds from my house when we moved out... who I'm kind of still seeing and greeted with a goddamn kiss on the lips (looking to move end of September) She walks over while I'm with this girl and walking back to my place. I turn to the girl and say "That's my ex, she's really possessive. Tell her that your my student". And she actually does! Lol. In two minds as to whether the ex/ gf actually bought it. The girl im with is cool with it...she says things are casual and she undersrands things can be complicated. Is that code for "im happy to be your mistress". Ah well.The risks we take!
 
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No idea what your hobby consists of but I fail to see how going on a date for an hour or hour and a half one night interferes with a hobby for months.
 

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No idea what your hobby consists of but I fail to see how going on a date for an hour or hour and a half one night interferes with a hobby for months.
I'm fine with going on dates and have been. Just not on the specific day of the week (Thursday and Sunday evening) when my hobby takes place. Couple that with friends, work and business and you have 2-3 evening slots in the week MAX for at least 5+ girls.

There's a waiting list and I wouldn't have it any other way.
 

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I'm fine with going on dates and have been. Just not on the specific day of the week (Thursday and Sunday evening) when my hobby takes place. Couple that with friends, work and business and you have 2-3 evening slots in the week MAX for at least 5+ girls.

There's a waiting list and I wouldn't have it any other way.
Ok, gotcha, I agree with that. When I was going on dates they'd never happen on a gym night so I can relate
 

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Second date ended early. Had to attend to a few things. She was 30, big fake t*ts, tongue piercing, a few tattoos. Italiana. Very touchy. We only managed an hour before I had to leave. Tried going in for the kiss and got parred hard!

Third date - we met and went to a bar. My plan was to go for a few drinks and then dancing. She said she was too tired for dancing. Suggested we go for a drink and see how she felt. 2 drinks in I suggested we head to her place. We did. Fvcked. Cute, tight Italiana. Slim and petite but with a cracking round ass. Smashed again this morning and then went for breakfast together.

Went back home in the afternoon, chilled, hit the gym, met the ex and then smashed her too. Saturday night and I'm drained. Finally some alone time. Waiting for a takeaway and then will put on a movie. Got a date planned for tomorrow but definitely going to flake. Got some business related stuff to take care of. Fun times ahead.
 

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Second date ended early. Had to attend to a few things. She was 30, big fake t*ts, tongue piercing, a few tattoos. Italiana. Very touchy. We only managed an hour before I had to leave. Tried going in for the kiss and got parred hard!

Third date - we met and went to a bar. My plan was to go for a few drinks and then dancing. She said she was too tired for dancing. Suggested we go for a drink and see how she felt. 2 drinks in I suggested we head to her place. We did. Fvcked. Cute, tight Italiana. Slim and petite but with a cracking round ass. Smashed again this morning and then went for breakfast together.

Went back home in the afternoon, chilled, hit the gym, met the ex and then smashed her too. Saturday night and I'm drained. Finally some alone time. Waiting for a takeaway and then will put on a movie. Got a date planned for tomorrow but definitely going to flake. Got some business related stuff to take care of. Fun times ahead.
Good weekend
 
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