"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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To the posters on sosuave.net.

Stop opening new threads after old ones are closed.
There is a reason why they were closed. Eternal, Prosemont, and etc do that for a reason.

If you don't know why PM one of the mods and they will probably give you a reason for it being closed.

Just a little suggestion for the posters here.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Funny, after I read it, there was a post that got closed in Discusison because it was about a closed thread.
 

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I've noticed that. I think the mods need to get a bit tougher around the boards for a little while. Iron fist for a few weeks, and all that.
 

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Originally posted by DJBen
I've noticed that. I think the mods need to get a bit tougher around the boards for a little while. Iron fist for a few weeks, and all that.
Funny, when the mods get hard, people complain, yet when they don't, people complain.

By the way, eternal is gone for a few weeks (see his sig.) This should be interesting.
 

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Originally posted by xi phi pi
Funny, when the mods get hard, people complain, yet when they don't, people complain.

By the way, eternal is gone for a few weeks (see his sig.) This should be interesting.
quit sucking up you troll!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Well, you wont see me complaining, thats for sure. Unless the health and fitness forum keeps going down-hill, in which case maybe I'll have to do some ass-kissing to start modding it :p

j/k
 
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