"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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comic_relief

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To the posters on sosuave.net.

Stop opening new threads after old ones are closed.
There is a reason why they were closed. Eternal, Prosemont, and etc do that for a reason.

If you don't know why PM one of the mods and they will probably give you a reason for it being closed.

Just a little suggestion for the posters here.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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xi phi pi

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Funny, after I read it, there was a post that got closed in Discusison because it was about a closed thread.
 

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I've noticed that. I think the mods need to get a bit tougher around the boards for a little while. Iron fist for a few weeks, and all that.
 

xi phi pi

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Originally posted by DJBen
I've noticed that. I think the mods need to get a bit tougher around the boards for a little while. Iron fist for a few weeks, and all that.
Funny, when the mods get hard, people complain, yet when they don't, people complain.

By the way, eternal is gone for a few weeks (see his sig.) This should be interesting.
 

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Originally posted by xi phi pi
Funny, when the mods get hard, people complain, yet when they don't, people complain.

By the way, eternal is gone for a few weeks (see his sig.) This should be interesting.
quit sucking up you troll!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Well, you wont see me complaining, thats for sure. Unless the health and fitness forum keeps going down-hill, in which case maybe I'll have to do some ass-kissing to start modding it :p

j/k
 
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