"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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To the posters on sosuave.net.

Stop opening new threads after old ones are closed.
There is a reason why they were closed. Eternal, Prosemont, and etc do that for a reason.

If you don't know why PM one of the mods and they will probably give you a reason for it being closed.

Just a little suggestion for the posters here.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Funny, after I read it, there was a post that got closed in Discusison because it was about a closed thread.
 
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I've noticed that. I think the mods need to get a bit tougher around the boards for a little while. Iron fist for a few weeks, and all that.
 
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Originally posted by DJBen
I've noticed that. I think the mods need to get a bit tougher around the boards for a little while. Iron fist for a few weeks, and all that.
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Funny, when the mods get hard, people complain, yet when they don't, people complain.

By the way, eternal is gone for a few weeks (see his sig.) This should be interesting.
 
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Originally posted by xi phi pi
Funny, when the mods get hard, people complain, yet when they don't, people complain.

By the way, eternal is gone for a few weeks (see his sig.) This should be interesting.
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quit sucking up you troll!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well, you wont see me complaining, thats for sure. Unless the health and fitness forum keeps going down-hill, in which case maybe I'll have to do some ass-kissing to start modding it :p

j/k
 
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