"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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thread from our favorite forum - about why men in late 30's are bachelors

MatureDJ

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http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t44148/

Here are the reasons:

being self centered
being too picky
having habits that women don't like or they can't tolerate the women's bad habits
having a fear of commitment
being to immature
they are only out for sex
they are closet homosexuals
basically no interest in having a relationship
I tend to think that men are programmed to only want to have sex with women of a certain morphology - i.e., that of a childless nubile teenager (which was the age that our forefathers took wives), and since most available women are obese, insane or mothers (and those that aren't know that their sh!t doesn't stink), those of us who are careful, forward thinkers have decided that the women have met just have not been worth it. Of course, although we may not want to get involved with such women, we do breakdown from time to time to hit it (which these whiny women use as an opportunity to get us to commit at least our spirm.)

What do you all think?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think that giving any credence to what women think about men's motivation to do anything is a waste of neural activity.
Any man's decision to remain unmarried is his personal decision and is not subject to women's approval or condemnation.
 

Kailex

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being self centered
being too picky
having habits that men don't like or they can't tolerate the men's bad habits
having a fear of commitment
being too immature
they are only out for sex
they are closet homosexuals
basically no interest in having a relationship
being a single mother or having multiple children with multiple fathers
There, fixed it so that it can fit for men as well as to "Why women in their late 30's are still single".
 

vatoloco

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MatureDJ said:
What do you all think?
I don't give a flying fvck what anybody thinks.

Why am I a bachelor at 35? Because I'm smart and because I want to. Smart enough not to chain myself to the wrong woman via marriage/kids and the desire to remain single until I find the right one.

In the meantime, I'm having the time of my life! :D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Virtually all women who complain that there are no "good men" left are obese.
 
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