"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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thread from our favorite forum - about why men in late 30's are bachelors

MatureDJ

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http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t44148/

Here are the reasons:

being self centered
being too picky
having habits that women don't like or they can't tolerate the women's bad habits
having a fear of commitment
being to immature
they are only out for sex
they are closet homosexuals
basically no interest in having a relationship
I tend to think that men are programmed to only want to have sex with women of a certain morphology - i.e., that of a childless nubile teenager (which was the age that our forefathers took wives), and since most available women are obese, insane or mothers (and those that aren't know that their sh!t doesn't stink), those of us who are careful, forward thinkers have decided that the women have met just have not been worth it. Of course, although we may not want to get involved with such women, we do breakdown from time to time to hit it (which these whiny women use as an opportunity to get us to commit at least our spirm.)

What do you all think?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think that giving any credence to what women think about men's motivation to do anything is a waste of neural activity.
Any man's decision to remain unmarried is his personal decision and is not subject to women's approval or condemnation.
 

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being self centered
being too picky
having habits that men don't like or they can't tolerate the men's bad habits
having a fear of commitment
being too immature
they are only out for sex
they are closet homosexuals
basically no interest in having a relationship
being a single mother or having multiple children with multiple fathers
There, fixed it so that it can fit for men as well as to "Why women in their late 30's are still single".
 

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MatureDJ said:
What do you all think?
I don't give a flying fvck what anybody thinks.

Why am I a bachelor at 35? Because I'm smart and because I want to. Smart enough not to chain myself to the wrong woman via marriage/kids and the desire to remain single until I find the right one.

In the meantime, I'm having the time of my life! :D
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Virtually all women who complain that there are no "good men" left are obese.
 
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