"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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thread from our favorite forum - about why men in late 30's are bachelors

MatureDJ

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http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t44148/

Here are the reasons:

being self centered
being too picky
having habits that women don't like or they can't tolerate the women's bad habits
having a fear of commitment
being to immature
they are only out for sex
they are closet homosexuals
basically no interest in having a relationship
I tend to think that men are programmed to only want to have sex with women of a certain morphology - i.e., that of a childless nubile teenager (which was the age that our forefathers took wives), and since most available women are obese, insane or mothers (and those that aren't know that their sh!t doesn't stink), those of us who are careful, forward thinkers have decided that the women have met just have not been worth it. Of course, although we may not want to get involved with such women, we do breakdown from time to time to hit it (which these whiny women use as an opportunity to get us to commit at least our spirm.)

What do you all think?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I think that giving any credence to what women think about men's motivation to do anything is a waste of neural activity.
Any man's decision to remain unmarried is his personal decision and is not subject to women's approval or condemnation.
 

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being self centered
being too picky
having habits that men don't like or they can't tolerate the men's bad habits
having a fear of commitment
being too immature
they are only out for sex
they are closet homosexuals
basically no interest in having a relationship
being a single mother or having multiple children with multiple fathers
There, fixed it so that it can fit for men as well as to "Why women in their late 30's are still single".
 

vatoloco

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MatureDJ said:
What do you all think?
I don't give a flying fvck what anybody thinks.

Why am I a bachelor at 35? Because I'm smart and because I want to. Smart enough not to chain myself to the wrong woman via marriage/kids and the desire to remain single until I find the right one.

In the meantime, I'm having the time of my life! :D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Virtually all women who complain that there are no "good men" left are obese.
 
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