"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Thread about words you don't want to be called.

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Was hanging out with this girl and she bumped into this guy who has a serious crush on her and is a complete AFC.

She was nice to him and all, the guy was attractive but a complete AFC.

After he left she turns to me and says. "That guy is a nice guy, I just wish he wasn't so... fragile".

Anyone else have some words that translate into AFC behavior?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Heres some that have been said to me, these are among the worst of the worst that you can hear!!!!!

"Your one of the nicest/sweetest guys I know."


(from a girl 4+ years older than me): If I were your age I'd totally be dating you.

(laughing) "I love you!"

"I wish all guys were as nice as you!"


Oh heres the absolute worst I've gotten:
"Wow, you should date my daughter."
 
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You're my best girl friend with a penis.
 
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One of the things that have me working to become a DJ is exactly: being called stuff like the ones ill tell you. Gladly i havent heard them again in a long time. If I ever hear em again Id get the hell outa there, cause i think i know i will never be called like this again:

- "You are the best gentlemen on earth"
- "I think I could talk to you all day, you are my listening partner"
- "You are the nicest guy I know"
- "You are like a brother to me"

But: "I Love you (laughing)" ? WOW, really hope you wont ever be called like that again!
 
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"Wow, you should date my daughter."

Not today.. Today I only hit on ugly old women...... I like to see how much I can stomach.. Hahahaha.



(laughing) "I love you!"

Hahahaha. I love me too! Oh hey, gotta go, bye.



(from a girl 4+ years older than me): If I were your age I'd totally be dating you.

That's right. In 4 years I wouldn't even be looking at girls like you...... Unless you can afford a face list and tommy tuck.



"I wish all guys were as nice as you!"

B1tch!! Tell that to the christmas ferry.... Also, ask her to give you money for better clothes and hair due.



"Your one of the nicest/sweetest guys I know."

You know a lot of guys? I thought you were a slvt..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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God...could be here for ever with this from my AFC days.

"I don't know why I don't fancy Tom. He's a mint lad"

"I am attracted to him, as a mate"

"you're more a shoulder to cry on"

"You're too respectful"
 
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