"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Thread about words you don't want to be called.

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Canadian Catnip

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Was hanging out with this girl and she bumped into this guy who has a serious crush on her and is a complete AFC.

She was nice to him and all, the guy was attractive but a complete AFC.

After he left she turns to me and says. "That guy is a nice guy, I just wish he wasn't so... fragile".

Anyone else have some words that translate into AFC behavior?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Heres some that have been said to me, these are among the worst of the worst that you can hear!!!!!

"Your one of the nicest/sweetest guys I know."


(from a girl 4+ years older than me): If I were your age I'd totally be dating you.

(laughing) "I love you!"

"I wish all guys were as nice as you!"


Oh heres the absolute worst I've gotten:
"Wow, you should date my daughter."
 
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Nexus Polaris

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You're my best girl friend with a penis.
 
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One of the things that have me working to become a DJ is exactly: being called stuff like the ones ill tell you. Gladly i havent heard them again in a long time. If I ever hear em again Id get the hell outa there, cause i think i know i will never be called like this again:

- "You are the best gentlemen on earth"
- "I think I could talk to you all day, you are my listening partner"
- "You are the nicest guy I know"
- "You are like a brother to me"

But: "I Love you (laughing)" ? WOW, really hope you wont ever be called like that again!
 
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"Wow, you should date my daughter."

Not today.. Today I only hit on ugly old women...... I like to see how much I can stomach.. Hahahaha.



(laughing) "I love you!"

Hahahaha. I love me too! Oh hey, gotta go, bye.



(from a girl 4+ years older than me): If I were your age I'd totally be dating you.

That's right. In 4 years I wouldn't even be looking at girls like you...... Unless you can afford a face list and tommy tuck.



"I wish all guys were as nice as you!"

B1tch!! Tell that to the christmas ferry.... Also, ask her to give you money for better clothes and hair due.



"Your one of the nicest/sweetest guys I know."

You know a lot of guys? I thought you were a slvt..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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God...could be here for ever with this from my AFC days.

"I don't know why I don't fancy Tom. He's a mint lad"

"I am attracted to him, as a mate"

"you're more a shoulder to cry on"

"You're too respectful"
 
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