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BeDJ
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I received a PM from a member to critique his writing. Care to discuss?
http://postmatrixmale.wordpress.com/
http://postmatrixmale.wordpress.com/
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
jafyk
Master Don Juan
If he PMed you to respond to critique his opinion. Did you stop to consider that maybe he just wanted your opinion only and not share it with everyone else? SMH!
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Yes, I must ask the same question. Did this member ask for you critique in confidence? If so you might want to remove the link and ask if he minds.
sylvester the cat
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yet another thread that proves that little green squares and wisdom do not go hand in hand...
B
BeDJ
Guest
Yes.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
I'm not clear... He PM'd you to look at his site, and doesn't mind your publishing it here publically. Is that correct?
B
BeDJ
Guest
Correct.