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BeDJ
Guest
I received a PM from a member to critique his writing. Care to discuss?
http://postmatrixmale.wordpress.com/
http://postmatrixmale.wordpress.com/
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
jafyk
Master Don Juan
If he PMed you to respond to critique his opinion. Did you stop to consider that maybe he just wanted your opinion only and not share it with everyone else? SMH!
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Yes, I must ask the same question. Did this member ask for you critique in confidence? If so you might want to remove the link and ask if he minds.
sylvester the cat
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yet another thread that proves that little green squares and wisdom do not go hand in hand...
B
BeDJ
Guest
Yes.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
I'm not clear... He PM'd you to look at his site, and doesn't mind your publishing it here publically. Is that correct?
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BeDJ
Guest
Correct.